‘If they don’t introduce you to their friends…’: Nargis Fakhri on signs of a one-sided relationship

She also pointed out another important sign to watch out for — how someone introduces their partner to friends and when they choose to do so. “Make sure, another red flag is if they don’t introduce you to their friends, after a certain point. If they do introduce you to their friends, that’s great. How they introduce you as well.” This, according to her, reveals a lot about where you stand in their life and how serious they are about the relationship.

So, how can someone differentiate between a partner who is genuinely invested in the relationship and one who is just going through the motions?

Licensed rehabilitation counsellor and psychotherapist Sonal Khangarot explains that a genuinely invested partner prioritises emotional connection. They:

• Show consistent effort and open communication.
• Make space for you in their life without you having to demand it.
• Remember small details, make compromises, and include you in future plans.
  

 

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In contrast, someone just going through the motions may:

• Be physically present but emotionally distant.
• Engage only when convenient and avoid deep conversations.
• Fail to follow through on commitments, leaving you feeling uncertain.

“The biggest indicator of genuine investment is alignment between words and actions,” says Khangarot. However, external factors — such as past experiences or personal struggles — can also influence how someone shows up in a relationship. Ultimately, time is the best judge; as you spend more time together, your gut feeling and mutual efforts will reveal whether the relationship has real potential.

Why introducing a partner to friends is a key relationship milestone

Introducing a partner to friends is more than just a social outing — it’s a significant marker of commitment. Khangarot explains:

• Timing matters: Introducing a partner too soon may seem impulsive, while a long delay could signal hesitation or secrecy.
• Manner of introduction is telling: A serious partner introduces you with confidence and inclusion, ensuring you feel comfortable in their social circle.
• Red flags to watch for: If they are reluctant, dismissive, or exclude you from important social interactions, they may be keeping their options open or unsure about the relationship’s long-term future.