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This is an archive article published on June 9, 2010

Mind Your Manners

Thirteen-year-old Pallavi Sen is busy learning about the different kind of cutlery to be used during meal-times,and to hold her fork and knife at proper angles.

Thirteen-year-old Pallavi Sen is busy learning about the different kind of cutlery to be used during meal-times,and to hold her fork and knife at proper angles. Her instructor tells her how to go about a formal sit-down dinner and the correct posture to maintain at these dos. Sen’s friend Ratna Shah on the other hand is taking tips on holding conversations with strangers and introducing herself at gatherings. The two are part of a grooming and personality development workshop in the city,that is helping kids to develop well-rounded personalities and improve their social skills.

This summer,apart from art classes,personality development workshops have gained tremendous currency among youngsters and their parents in the city. “More often than not,one comes across rude behaviour and a lack of grace in public dealings. We hope to teach these teenagers not to emulate that. Maybe their change in attitude will be an example that others will follow,” says Rashi Adlakha,an educationist and mother to a teenager,who is conducting a workshop,Dining Etiquette and Social Graces together with Vandana Seth. The eight-day module is designed for teenagers who will be taken through the basics of dinner-table etiquette,including proper carriage,setting the table,holding conversations and attending formal events. “The idea is to boost their self-confidence,while making a foray into the finer aspects of life. They will be taught to deal with nerves,breathe correctly,create first impressions and develop a sportsman spirit,” says Seth. The workshop includes a session with a psychologist and a counsellor.

Parents too realize the importance of grooming their kids in social skills. “I wanted my daughter to work on her accent,grammar,pronunciation and voice modulation,” says Poonam Garg,whose 16-year-old is attending the workshop. At another summer camp organized by 94.3 My FM,Pallavie Kakkar has worked on a set of skills which are varied and involves the participants full-on. She begins by explaining to the kids the importance of personality development,before she takes them through the mores of correct body language,and skills like public speaking and the art of telephonic conversations. “Personality development is the need of the hour and future. The earlier we begin,the better,” says Kakkar. Likewise,the British Library’s summer workshops focus on personality development,as much as they stress on general knowledge. Suprita Gill,resource person for the workshop,Act,Speak,Create and Enjoy,uses dramatic play,story enactment,imagination journeys,theatre games,music and dance to develop the participant’s personality and confidence. The activities provided kids between the age group of six-10 years with an enhanced awareness about the importance of correct communication.

Sresht Solutions in Panchkula,a firm formed by a group of young people who have worked for several years in the education and corporate sectors is all set to deliver high-end behavioural and soft skills’ experiential training. Gaurav Wahi,Abhik Dasgupta and Geetika Jain recently did a personality development session at Gurukul Global for kids aged between six-fifteen,that involved puppetry,theatre games,interactive activities and improvisation. “As kids they are less conditioned as compared to adult participants,so we tried to help them find out things they enjoy,” says Jain. “Initially,many of them refused to talk or get involved. By the end of it,many shared their experiences,did role plays and were confident in their skin,” says Wahi.

At Spiritu-all in Panchkula child psychologist Rajshree Sarda believes in motivating and encouraging children to a higher level of awareness.”We use drama and dance as mediums of expression for the holistic development,giving fun-filled lessons for personal growth,” explains Sarda. Their ongoing two-week has a special program to make children aware of their emotions and how to deal with them. Parents too are being subtly coached into understanding the various phases in their child’s life and how to deal with them. “It’s essential to inculcate good habits that last a lifetime,” adds Ramit,theatre instructor at the organisation.

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