Fame in India is a double-edged sword, and cricketers know this better than anyone else. Their victories are celebrated like festivals, but when they stumble, the backlash can be brutal. Often, it is not just the players who face criticism; families, too, are dragged into the storm. Irfan Pathan has lived through this reality. Over the years, his wife, Safa Baig, has been subjected to relentless trolling, ranging from being mocked for wearing nail polish to being policed over a blurred picture she once posted.
The couple married in 2016, and while Irfan has usually stayed away from controversies, he admits it was tough to watch his wife being targeted. Speaking to Lallantop, he shared, “Shuru mei bura lagta tha, shuru mei lagta tha yeh zaroorat nhi hai (In the beginning, it felt bad, it felt unnecessary).”
Pathan called Safa the “leader” of their home and said, “Mere leader ke baare mei koi bolega toh sahi nhi lagta hai (If someone says something against my leader, it doesn’t feel right),” he said. He further added, “Trolling bilkul hui hai and bohot galat tareeke se hui and jo sahi nhi hai. Shruu mei jab hua tha jo humari mohtarma ko bura laga tha and mera yehi kehna hai ki comments mat padho (There was trolling, it was done in a very wrong way, and it wasn’t right. When it happened initially, it hurt my wife, and I told her not to read the comments).”
Despite the negativity, Irfan admitted he often feels like sharing family moments openly. “Agar mera bas chale toh main roz family photo post karoon lekin main public figure hone ke bawajood bhi bohot private aadmi hoon (If it was up to me, I’d post family photos every day, but even as a public figure, I’m still a very private person),” he said. Interestingly, he also revealed that he first connected with Safa through social media, and it was he who reached out to her.
The conversation eventually turned towards his cricketing career. Irfan recalled the struggles he faced during M S Dhoni’s captaincy, despite putting in solid performances. Referring to India’s 2009 tour of New Zealand, he pointed out how he was benched throughout the ODI series and only played two T20Is. Curious about the decision, he approached then-head coach Gary Kirsten for answers.
“Kirsten gave me two reasons. He said, ‘There are things that are not in my hands.’ Those were Gary’s exact words. I asked whose hands it was in, but he didn’t tell me. I already knew whose hands it was in,” Irfan said, hinting that Dhoni had the final say. “The playing XI is decided by the captain. The decision rests with the captain, coach, and management. Dhoni was the captain at that time. I will not get into whether that decision was right or wrong, because every captain has the right to run the team in his own way.”