Click here to follow Screen Digital on YouTube and stay updated with the latest from the world of cinema.
When Hema Malini accepted she has never entered husband Dharmendra’s Juhu home, didn’t want to disturb his first family: ‘I have a lot of respect for Prakash Kaur’
On Dharmendra's first wife Prakash Kaur's birthday, let's take a look at her layered and complicated relationship with actress Hema Malini.
Dharmendra stayed married to Prakash Kaur when he tied the knot with Hema Malini. (Photo: Express Archive)Veteran actor Dharmendra created a stir in the film industry when he decided to marry actress Hema Malini. The surprise wasn’t rooted in their love story, but in the fact that Dharmendra was already married to Prakash Kaur, with whom he had four children–including actors Sunny Deol and Bobby Deol. Without divorcing his first wife, he tied the knot with Hema Malini, a move that sparked headlines and debates across the country. On the surface, it appeared to be a fairytale union between two stars in love. In reality, however, the situation was layered and complicated.
Hema Malini on her relationship with Dharmendra’s first family
In her biography Hema Malini: The Dream Girl, the actress revealed that she had met Prakash Kaur a few times at social gatherings before her wedding. However, after marrying Dharmendra, she never crossed paths with her again—and has never entered Dharmendra’s Juhu bungalow, despite living just a short distance away.
Speaking about the arrangement, Hema Malini shared: “I didn’t want to disturb anyone. I am happy with whatever Dharamji did for me and my daughters. He played the role of a father, like any father would. I guess I am happy with that.”
In an interview with Lehren, she reflected further: “I am not feeling bad about it, or sulking about it. I am happy with myself. I have my two children, and I have brought them up very well. Of course, he (Dharmendra) was there, always. No one likes staying away from their spouse, but sometimes circumstances are such that one has to accept the situation.”
The actress also admitted that she holds deep respect for Prakash Kaur and Dharmendra’s first family in her memoir, adding: “Today I am a working woman and I have been able to maintain my dignity because I devoted my life to art and culture. If the situation was slightly different, I wouldn’t be what I am today. Though I have never spoken about Prakash, I respect her a lot. Even my daughters respect Dharamji’s family. The world may want to know every detail about my life, but that is not for others to know. It’s no one’s business.”
When Prakash Kaur supported Dharmendra’s second marriage
While Dharmendra faced backlash for remarrying, Prakash Kaur–who largely avoids the spotlight–once defended her husband publicly. In a 1981 interview with Stardust, she said: “Why only my husband? Any man would have preferred Hema over me. How dare anyone call my husband a womaniser when half the industry is doing the same thing? He may not be the best husband, though he is very good to me, but he is certainly the best father. His children love him a lot. He never neglects them.”
She also shared her perspective on Hema Malini: “I can understand what Hema is going through. Even she has to face the world, her relatives, and friends. But if I were in Hema’s place, I would not have done what she did. As a woman, I can understand her feelings. But as a wife and mother, I do not approve of them.”
- 01
- 02
- 03
- 04
- 05































