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Saira Banu shares how Ashok Kumar gave Dilip Kumar the biggest acting lesson of his life: ‘If you try to act it out, it will look silly’
Saira Banu shared an anecdote about the friendship of Dilip Kumar and Ashok Kumar, and how Dada Moni gave the Mughal-E-Azam actor an acting tip that probably stayed with him for the rest of his life.

Veteran actor Saira Banu, the wife of Dilip Kumar, has been sharing many anecdotes from the late actor’s life on her social media. In her latest post, Saira shared a photo of Dilip and Ashok Kumar who were both a part of Bombay Talkies studio in their early days. Both actors got their first break under Devika Rani and went on to become legends in Hindi cinema.
Saira, in her post, shared that it was Devika who introduced the two actors and their first handshake “marked the beginning of a friendship that was to last a lifetime.” She also recounted how Ashok made Dilip feel comfortable during those days and gave him an acting tip that probably stayed with him throughout his life. The actor wrote, “He said that he knew why he was there, You are a handsome man and I can see you are eager to learn well, It’s very simple. You just do the scene given to you as you would behave in a real-life situation if you were really in it. Be natural if you try to act it out, it will look silly.”
Saira Banu recalled that Dilip Kumar would address Ashok Kumar as ‘Bhaiyya’ and would spend a lot of time at his house. She shared how Raj Kapoor, who was their contemporary, would also accompany them. She further wrote, “Ashok Bhaiyya lived close to the Studios those days and Raj and Dilip Sahib were always welcomed in Bhaiyya’s home to savour hot Bhajiyas made by his wife Shoba Bhabhi. Raj Kapoor would often join Sahib and hug him excitedly saying that he’s happy to know that he had joined the acting profession.”
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Saira Banu added that Ashok Kumar would tell them to play badminton with him and later treat them with a feast. “Bhaiyya sometimes arrived while they were having Bhajiyas and demanded that they should play badminton with him. He would chide them jokingly, You come here and flirt with my wife, eat nice Bhajiyas and you don’t want to accompany me in playing badminton. Later, when they worked together, on Ashok Bhaiyya’s order there would be a ‘Daawat’ at lunchtime with delicious food like Biryani and homemade ice cream.”
Saira mentioned that when Ashok was dealing with health problems later in his life, Dilip Kumar would visit him and “regale him with Urdu couplets and wicked jokes.” She added, “He would respond marvelously and cheer up. Sahib and I visited him regularly while Bhaiyya’s man Khurshid followed us out and told us that ‘Dada Moni’ really perks up and livens up with your coming. This was a great camaraderie in bad times.”


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