‘Shailesh was to return from Kashmir a day after birthday’: Surat family plans funeral after Pahalgam attack
On hearing of the terror attack, Shailesh Kathaliya’s cousin called him to check if things were fine — and heard he was among the victims.
Written by Kamal Saiyed
Surat | Updated: April 24, 2025 05:11 AM IST
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Shailesh Himmat Kathaliya was working as a manager at the State Bank of India in Andheri. (Express Photo)
Shailesh Himmat Kathaliya would have turned 46 on Wednesday. He had planned to return from Kashmir after celebrating his birthday. Now, in Mota Varachha of Surat, all arrangements for his funeral procession have been prepared at his uncle’s house, while his family waits for the body.
Shailesh’s cousin, Kishan, a textile businessman, said: “On Tuesday afternoon, after learning about the terror attack in Pahalgam, my elder brother Mayur called up Shailesh to find out if everything was fine. On the other side, Shailesh’s wife Shital picked up. She started crying, and said that Shailesh had been a victim of the terror attack.”
At least 25 tourists and a Valley resident were shot dead Tuesday at a meadow near Pahalgam in Jammu and Kashmir in the deadliest terror attack on civilians in the country since the Mumbai 26/11 shootings.
“We were all shocked after learning about the incident. Mayur bhai and two others have reached Kashmir, and they are taking care of Shital and looking after all the necessary arrangements to bring the body to Surat,” said Kishan.
Shailesh Himmat Kathaliya, a resident of Mumbai and native of Lathi taluka in Amreli district, was working as a manager at the State Bank of India in Andheri. He had left for a summer tour with his wife Shitalben (41), daughter and son last week.
Shailesh’s father Himmatbhai Kathaliya came down to Surat from Dhufamilya village in Lathi taluka on Wednesday morning to receive the body.
Family members said that Shailesh’s cousin Mayur and two others had on Tuesday afternoon learnt about the death of Shailesh and later in the evening, they left for Mumbai. They later reached Srinagar, where they contacted his wife Shital and helped her out with the procedures.
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Speaking to The Indian Express, Kishan Kathaliya said: “Our entire family has shifted to Surat, while Shailesh was earlier staying in Surat and he had purchased a bungalow in the Katargam Chikuwadi area. However, due to the transferable job of a Class 1 officer at the SBI, he had to move to different states and districts. He was in Mumbai at the Andheri branch for the last year, and before that, he was in Jaipur, Rajasthan. He takes his family wherever he gets transferred. He had given his house in Surat on rent.”
He said: “All our family and relatives are settled in Surat, so we have decided to carry out the final rites in Surat city. My uncle and his father Himmat bhai also had come down to Surat early in the morning. Shailesh’s mother passed away a couple of years ago.”
Kamal Saiyed is a senior Correspondent for The Indian Express, providing extensive, on-the-ground coverage from Surat and the broader South Gujarat region and the Union territories of Daman, Diu & Dadra Nagar Haveli. With a reporting career at the publication spanning back to 2007, he has established himself as a high-authority voice on the industrial, social, and political pulse of one of India’s fastest-growing urban hubs.
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