By providing endless playdates, use of screens or enrolling them in activities, we are not allowing them to listen to their inner voice. Their inner voice that tells them to make a fort, or write a story or draw a picture.
Problem solving tasks encourage a child to think of novel solutions, decide on a plan and even assert themselves in a group with the help of logic and reasoning. They are able to find new and creative ways to express themselves.
"I promise you this. If you get them hooked onto something awesome when they’re kids, they will thank you for it when they grow up!"
World Environment Day 2019: Children who are not connected with nature will not fight to save it. The best activity for parents and children is to spend time in nature and use their senses to experience the natural environment. Parents are the best role models for kids.
World Environment Day 2019: Worries of the lonesome: It’s just not the tiger, but also the golden mahseer, Great Indian Bustard and Himalayan Quail, among many others, that face an uncertain future, says author Benita Sen.
Parents and other family members must take cognizance and work towards plugging any gaps in the family structure that could have an adverse effect on the child’s development.
Puberty brings with it a whole new set of physical and emotional changes among teenagers. Menstruation is just not a women’s issue, but a social issue.
There will always be things you cannot control. Let it go. Take some time out for yourself. We sometimes need to be someone else, other than a mom on the edge of the nerves, ready to breakdown.
In an ideal world, research has shown that staying as close to an authoritative approach is best. Being aware of how you are handling a particular situation will help facilitate conversation between your spouse and you.
Superhero comic books: The movies, TV shows and comics today are meant for adults and you have to be really careful when introducing really young children to them. However, pretty much all superhero characters have kid-friendly versions of their stories.
Exam results 2019: We need to replace the question, 'What was the highest score in class?' with ' What is the change in your scores from last time? Better? Worse? What changed?' So the focus has to shift to the process rather than the result.
Exam results 2019: We have "educated" them for 12 years. Yet many of these students will not be confident about reading, writing and speaking at their age level and will listen sometimes without understanding what is said or being asked of them. When asked to answer a question they will want to know the answer.
Mother's Day 2019: "As parents we try to steer clear from over-parenting. We all learn more from our mistakes than from our successes and I want her to learn that more than anything else. It is fine to fail, make mistakes and move on."
Should you have a second child or not? Will you be depriving your child of a sibling and family for when you are no longer around? Or will you be forcing a sibling on him and depriving him of your undivided attention? If you were to have a second child, what should be the ideal age gap?
Here’s what I want to say to all the good men out there. Be strong, not just for your baby but more importantly for your wife. Don’t let it bother you if she is a little angsty or irritable. It is part of the process. Accept it and be nice to her.
Well, let me tell you this, as a parent I had the privilege to watch the most anticipated movie of the year with my two kids, aged 8 and 13 years, last weekend and I would definitely like to propel every Indian parent to watch it with their children, as it is incredibly worthwhile.
There are quite a few parents who decide the playgroup their baby will join based on the likelihood of them getting into the right pre-school, which will train them for the right school and to the right college, which they hope will lead them to the right career.
Think about it. When was the last time you took your child’s picture with his medal for simply your memories? How many seconds did you wait before posting it online?
A couple of decades down the line, today's children will invent future tools, technologies, and the unknown jobs. They need to develop ideas that can address the challenges of their times.
Take a long-term approach and don't make hasty decisions. Discuss all pros and cons, do your research thoroughly and then take a decision in the best interests of the child and your family. It's important to remember that no decision is lasting.
The deep desire for recognition, that too in a flash, is a problem that an entire generation seems to have developed. Explain to children that there is no such thing as fame without incredible and persistent hard work.
We hear our kids have a problem and we want to jump into a full rescue mode. But hold on and instead ask them how they think you could help. If they feel they are not being judged, they might want to discuss their problem with you openly.
This is what happens in most households in our country with children unable to cope with the supremely high demands set by parents. Before the child is even born, they are expected to become the best engineers, doctors, lawyers, or government servants among others that the pressure becomes unbearable for them
Most families start going out with their baby possibly a month or two after they're born. Maybe to a family event, maybe even outstation or even something as simple as going to the mall--and when you're out most mothers are constantly worried about one thing. Will I find a safe and clean place to feed my baby?
We need to unplan a little, let go some more, and set them free. We need to remember the proverbial ‘our times’ – we aimlessly cycled around the block or played random games, the rules of which changed every day. Our children need that.


