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What is lighthouse parenting? Why you should adopt it for your teens

Parents should share personal experiences of setbacks and how they overcame them, demonstrating resilience and problem-solving skills.

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Lighthouse parenting is a balanced parenting approach in which children are provided love, support, and guidance but while the parents maintain appropriate boundaries. It finds the middle ground between helicopter parenting—characterized by constant hovering and unsolicited support—and free-range parenting, which involves minimal interference.

This method creates a stable, safe environment where children can explore, grow, and build a sense of belonging in this dynamic, ever-changing world. Picture a lost ship adrift in the ocean, wandering without knowing which direction to head towards, until it spots a lighthouse guiding it safely to shore. Similarly, lighthouse parents serve as an anchor, as a grounding source, offering reliable support and guidance while encouraging children to navigate life without worry, and explore while staying within safe boundaries.

Lighthouse parenting involves using healthy coping mechanisms, discussing uncomfortable topics, and encouraging constructive outlets for emotions like anger. These parents are actively involved in their children’s lives, fostering understanding and open communication while allowing their kids to question, explore, and learn without fear.

Here are some key strategies for lighthouse parenting:

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Set clear rules: Communicate expectations and consequences explicitly. For example, instead of saying, “Don’t use your phone too much,” specify time limits and explain the reasons like preserving mental health or enhancing focus.

Praise effort, not results: Celebrate their hard work and determination rather than just outcomes. This approach nurtures a growth mindset, helping children adapt to challenges.

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Avoid mixed signals: Ensure parents or caregivers present a united front on essential rules and expectations.

Normalise failure: Teach children to view mistakes as opportunities for growth. Share personal experiences of setbacks and how you overcame them, demonstrating resilience and problem-solving skills.

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