Trouble finding love? Here are 7 expert tips to improve your dating experience

1. Own your search for love

There’s nothing desperate or cringy about desiring a relationship. If finding a partner is a priority for you — own it — and create space for it in your life. If you don’t want to prioritise it, that’s okay too. Regardless, be honest with yourself about what you truly want.

2. Work on self-worth and confidence

Valuing yourself more brings greater life satisfaction, whether or not you have a partner. You get to the realisation that having a partner is a life enhancement, and not the sole source of happiness. Confidence also makes you undeniably attractive.

3. Go on dates

Whether it’s through meeting people IRL (in real life), dating apps, or matchmakers — if you want to improve your dating life in 2024, go on dates! If you’re scared, Koren assures you that one date won’t lead to a rushed relationship with the wrong person. Just get out there.

4. Ditch the judgment and be open-minded

Instead of focusing on flaws and reasons to say no, pay attention to reasons to say yes. Koren urges people to understand that “not everyone is a manipulative narcissist who’s trying to control you”. In fact, most people aren’t, so let go of preconceived notions. Stop letting the ick get in the way of an amazing connection. Accept that no one is perfect and be open-minded.

5. Keep your standards high and expectations low

High expectations in dating often lead to constant disappointment. Koren advises to ditch rigid expectations, and let people reveal their true selves. Maintaining high standards will help you quickly move on from incompatible matches.

6. Make dating fun

Infuse fun into dating by engaging in activities you genuinely enjoy. Even if the date is lacklustre, you’ll still have a good time. Tracking your dates can also add an element of enjoyment.

7. Stop overthinking

Take a chance, put yourself out there, and don’t overthink. Rejections become less daunting with each experience, making it easier to navigate the dating landscape.

Sidhharrth S Kumaar, relationship coach, NumroVani in an interview with indianexpress.com, advises individuals to invest some time in gaining knowledge about their own boundaries, values and desires before they start looking for someone else. “This transparency shows through and draws in partners who are compatible with you.” Additionally, be honest about your feelings and expectations. “If you are not an expert at mind reading, then do not expect others to read your mind,” Kumaar said.

The dating process ought to be easy-going and enjoyable, so Kumaar suggests maintaining an open mind to people of different personalities and backgrounds, allowing sparks to fly at their own pace.

 

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