Now, an all-in-one guide for aspiring Romeos

According to the guide, holding the door and being prepared to pay for the meal are a given. However, giving up your seat isn8217;t necessary for those looking for love 8211; unless you are trying to attract a pregnant or an elderly woman.

Your conversation should be a fine balance between talking and listening, and avoid talking about the three principal passions killers 8212; money, illness or death.

First date rules include drinks or lunch, that way having to avoid wasting an evening if you hate each other. Try to compliment her and come the end, if all8217;s gone well, try to kiss her but don8217;t try to get her into bed.

For those dating with children, advanced warning that the little darlings are coming along is vital, and never ignore your kids or choose solely adult activities to impress your target.

Blind dates should be avoided but if you find yourself set up, stick around for at least two drinks. In fact an early departure is 8220;humiliating and ungentlemanly8221;, according to the new guide.

If dating online, don8217;t fall into the temptation of trying to be funny with your profile picture. Use a flattering one, but make sure it is realistic. Remember, chat up lines are no substitute for eye contact and good humour.

Flowers make a splendid present, but there are pitfalls. Mixed bouquets can look cheap if not a decent size and well arranged, and bulk up the flowers with greenery.

While proposing, timing, location and confidence are all things you should prepare. Get down on one knee, she will love it and if a look of horror spreads over her face you can always pretend you8217;re tying a shoelace.

And when it comes to choosing a diamond ring, remember the four Cs 8211; carat, clarity, colour and cut. If disaster strikes remember to keep your dignity and never grovel, lose your temper or try to change her mind.