‘Mehndi mania’ during festivals

The day long festival is celebrated in north India mostly by married women who observe a day-long fast for the longevity of their husbands. They decorate their hands and feet with mehndi,basically a paste that is obtained from the leaves of henna plant.

“I have been coming here for the last 20 years. And,I have seen myself change from a young girl to a bride and to a mother as I have witnessed this place change itself. But,it’s the magic of this place which I guess pulls people here,year after year,” said Priya,a doctor by profession who travelled all the way from Rajendra Nagar to get ‘henna’ done on her hands.

While Priya gets her mehndi done,her husband,a fashion designer patiently waits on the sidelines with their kid and family,flashing big tattoos on both his arms.

The invasion of modernity and tattoo fad seems to have harldy affected the popularity of this old manual art.

“Now,getting mehndi on your hands and feet has become more like a fashion. But,I think it is a good thing. Because,this way,people are at least celebrating their own culture and not forgetting it,and it does good for our business too,” says Anita Gupta,who owns one of the many little henna shops dotting the premises.

For some,the festival also provides them a business opportunity.

“I for one wait with bated breath for the arrival of this festival. I have seen it growing up and also seen my parents practice this art. And,I got so hooked on to it,I gave up my studies to pursue it. All designs are in my heads. In fact,sometimes I dream of those patterns,” says Anita.

On request Anita shows an album of customers which range from loyal domestic one to foreigners drawn to the “exotic art”.

“Today,two foreigners got their mehndi done. And,maybe Indian boys don’t do it but foreign males do like a bit of henna design on their hands,” says Anita as she flips through an album. Another shop owner points out that “mehndi is more than jewellery” and now people of all caste and religion have taken a liking to the art. We get a lot of customers during Eid too.”

A newly-married couple from Noida who dropped in here,on suggestion of a friend say they were in for an impressive surprise.

“Well,it’s jut 10 months into marriage and our first visit here but I say,it’s pretty impressive. And,though my wife is quite adept at applying henna,she wanted to experience the bridal journey,so she came here,” says Mayank Kaushik,a consultant.

His wife,Vishwadeeepti,a jewellery designer says she wanted to live the culture of being a married woman and be pampered by her husband on this special day.

“I could have done this myself but him glued to a television and me indulging in isolation wouldn’t be fun now,would it,” asks Vishwadeepti,stressing the importance of the festival in promoting the marital bonds of two souls.

As the night gets darker,the festivity grows stronger,the lights get brighter and so does the smiles on couples’ faces.

Though Anita says that some husbands do “get impatient and irritated,standing and playing a second fiddle”,it is “love that always triumphs in the end”.