3 signs you need to take a break from dating

"While I am a huge proponent of dating as much as you can and learning from that experience, here are three situations where dating should not be your priority," Lion, a dating transformation coach, said.

Here are 3 signs you shouldn't be dating. (Source: Freepik)

In a world where dating apps offer the possibility of meeting new people with a mere swipe, the pursuit of finding ‘The One’ can be incredibly tempting. However, it’s crucial to remember that being single is a valid and empowering choice, irrespective of societal pressures. Your self-worth is not defined by your relationship status.

So, how can you tell if a dating break is what you need? And more time with yourself would be beneficial? Lion, a dating transformation coach, took to Instagram to share 3 signs you shouldn’t be dating. “While I am a huge proponent of dating as much as you can and learning from that experience, here are three situations where dating should not be your priority,” he said in the post.

1. Struggling financially

Lion advised individuals facing financial challenges to reconsider dating. “Your time will be way better spent investing in your financial goals rather than dating because if you come from a place of lack into dating, chances are you’ll only be attracting more lack into your life,” he explained.

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Sidhharrth S Kumaar, relationship coach, NumroVani, added that financial stress can lead to unwanted strain on a relationship, reducing self-esteem and creating self-doubt. However, he emphasised the importance of considering individual circumstances. “”It depends on your unique priorities and circumstances. It’s critical to keep in mind that partnerships are very personal and what suits one individual may not be appropriate for another.”

2. Lack of self-love

Lion stressed the importance of entering the dating scene with a healthy amount of self-love. Without it, setting boundaries becomes challenging, and individuals may settle for less than they deserve. “If you don’t love yourself, no one will either,” he noted.

Kumaar agreed with this, stating that low self-love can lead to toxic relationship patterns, potentially attracting unstable or emotionally unavailable partners. However, he countered the idea that “nobody will love you if you can’t love yourself.” “A supportive partner could serve as a catalyst for one’s journey towards self-love.”

3. Negative outlook on dating

Lion warned against dating if the mere thought of it brings about negative feelings. He noted that negativity attracts negativity and suggested investing in oneself during such times.

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Kumaar also advised those emotionally connected to an ex-partner to avoid dating, as it might be unfair to a potential new partner. Furthermore, dating should not be used as a diversion from life’s challenges. “Dating is no escape route. This might risk you falling into a pattern of shallow relationships that don’t meet your basic requirements,” he cautioned.

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Taking a step back from dating during certain life circumstances can pave the way for personal growth and a healthier approach to relationships, said Kumaar. “Consult a coach or expert who can offer personalised insights and steer you in the right direction.”

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