‘If they don’t introduce you to their friends…’: Nargis Fakhri on signs of a one-sided relationship

“They string them along… they disappear, they come back,” asserted Nargis Fakhri

By: Lifestyle Desk
New Delhi | March 4, 2025 03:26 PM IST

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Nargis Fakhri on dating red flags (Source: Instagram/Nargis Fakhri)

Nargis Fakhri has never shied away from speaking her mind, and her recent take on relationships has caught everyone’s attention.

In an interview with Hauterrfly, the actor shared her perspective on red flags that should not be ignored while dating. She emphasised that effort is a key indicator of genuine interest, saying, “A man will move mountains for you, and if he does not, he’s not the one. So don’t make yourself a fool, because that’s what people are doing. And that goes for men too, because women do it to men. They string them along… they disappear, they come back.”

She also pointed out another important sign to watch out for — how someone introduces their partner to friends and when they choose to do so. “Make sure, another red flag is if they don’t introduce you to their friends, after a certain point. If they do introduce you to their friends, that’s great. How they introduce you as well.” This, according to her, reveals a lot about where you stand in their life and how serious they are about the relationship.

So, how can someone differentiate between a partner who is genuinely invested in the relationship and one who is just going through the motions?

Licensed rehabilitation counsellor and psychotherapist Sonal Khangarot explains that a genuinely invested partner prioritises emotional connection. They:

Show consistent effort and open communication.
Make space for you in their life without you having to demand it.
Remember small details, make compromises, and include you in future plans.

In contrast, someone just going through the motions may:

Be physically present but emotionally distant.
Engage only when convenient and avoid deep conversations.
Fail to follow through on commitments, leaving you feeling uncertain.

“The biggest indicator of genuine investment is alignment between words and actions,” says Khangarot. However, external factors — such as past experiences or personal struggles — can also influence how someone shows up in a relationship. Ultimately, time is the best judge; as you spend more time together, your gut feeling and mutual efforts will reveal whether the relationship has real potential.

Why introducing a partner to friends is a key relationship milestone

Introducing a partner to friends is more than just a social outing — it’s a significant marker of commitment. Khangarot explains:

Timing matters: Introducing a partner too soon may seem impulsive, while a long delay could signal hesitation or secrecy.
Manner of introduction is telling: A serious partner introduces you with confidence and inclusion, ensuring you feel comfortable in their social circle.
Red flags to watch for: If they are reluctant, dismissive, or exclude you from important social interactions, they may be keeping their options open or unsure about the relationship’s long-term future.

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