The techie described himself as someone who isn’t usually expressive about his emotions; however, the weight of the moment left him overwhelmed (Representational image/Unsplash)An Indian software engineer recently opened up about losing his father and how he couldn’t answer calls from his family due to work commitments. Vivek Naskar shared about the emotional turmoil of missing his father’s final call and the pain of rushing to see him one last time.
“I lost my father this morning,” Naskar wrote. “I got over 20 phone calls from my mom, but I was working late and didn’t hear the calls. When I finally picked up (at around 8 am), I booked the fastest flight I could, but I’ll only reach by 7 PM.”
He shared that he was sitting at the airport, waiting to board his connecting flight, overwhelmed with thoughts and emotions. “I’m sitting at the airport now, waiting for my second flight, and hundreds of thoughts are running through my mind, thoughts I have no control over,” he said.
While scrolling through his call history, Naskar noticed that his father had also tried to reach out.
“I didn’t call him back. I should have. I always thought I had more time with him. I didn’t,” he admitted. “The last conversations between my father and me were about some disagreements. But we loved each other. He told my mom he was proud of me — not to me, though.”
Naskar described himself as someone who isn’t usually expressive about his emotions; however, the weight of the moment left him overwhelmed. “I’m writing this with a heavy heart and tears in my eyes because I need to keep a tough face when I see my mom and sister,” he shared. “I’m writing here to process everything and prepare myself to see my father, one last time.”
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I lost my father this morning.
I got over 20 phone calls from my mom, but I was working late and didn’t hear calls. When I finally picked up (at around 8am), I booked the fastest flight I could, but I’ll only reach by 7 PM.
I’m sitting at the airport now, waiting for my second…
— Vivek Naskar (@vivek_naskar) October 10, 2025
The post resonated with numerous users, amassing over three million views and a flurry of reactions. “I’m spending time with my mother and father right now. I feel privileged. The pain you’re going through is unimaginable, one of the worst pains in life, no doubt,” a user wrote. “I’m very sorry for your loss. I lost my mother on August 28th. I also couldn’t explain how I felt. It’s not an easy thing. I wish you and your family peace,” another user commented.
“I lost my Dad three years ago. Peace and prayers to you and your family,” a third user reacted.


