Indian man’s viral video comparing life abroad and in India triggers mixed reactions online: ‘1000 reasons to stay away’

An Indian man based in the United States has got people talking after he posted a video that hilariously weighs the struggles of living abroad against the chaos of life back in India. Shared on Instagram by user “Factual Anil in Actual US,” the clip comes with the tongue-in-cheek caption: “POV: You’re done with all the jhaadu–pocha, bartan–kapde… and still don’t wanna go back. Abroad chores = 100 reasons to complain, but India’s chaos = 1000 reasons to stay away.”

In the video, Anil gives a lighthearted glimpse into the daily grind of immigrants, doing everything from mopping floors to washing dishes and folding laundry, without the usual household help many rely on in India. Yet, instead of glorifying life back home, he pokes fun at the reality that returning isn’t always the dream solution either.

A quick list flashes on screen, citing reasons like “pollution, bad infrastructure, workload, huge debt, unemployment, low income, high expenses and quality of life,” all reminders of why settling abroad, despite its challenges, can still feel like the better deal. The video wraps up with a witty reminder: “So keep calm and do your kaam.”

 

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The post struck a chord online, with NRIs flooding the comments, some laughing at how relatable it felt, while others confessed that no amount of chores could make them stop missing home.

A user wrote, “I am in India right now after living abroad for 15 years. My analysis, Indian values are not the same as 15 years ago. Lack of empathy, and love is all I can see at this moment. People fighting for super minor reasons, road rage everyday. Some good people are still there but rare to find. Home doesn’t feel home anymore because people in that home have changed.”

Another user commented, “U r missing an important point..women’s safety and freedom.”

Some netizens got upset with the video and wrote, “I wish you can never come back to India …. Even when you want that will be best for you. Good luck with your second grade citizenship in US.”

Another user said, “Why would you insult your own country? Atleast they don’t kick you out whenever they feel like it. Waking up in a country where no one wants you, vs going back home where your family and parents can’t wait to see you. You may have 100 reasons to complain, but will have 100000 to go back.”