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This is an archive article published on February 14, 2006

Hug the moment

For those indulging in the business of love, today is the day. Never mind if it is nobody8217;s business to know what one is doing or undoi...

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For those indulging in the business of love, today is the day. Never mind if it is nobody8217;s business to know what one is doing or undoing on the day. Never mind if it doesn8217;t last.

Like that fragile moment just recently, when a programme in memory of yesteryear singer Suraiyya was held where some of her haunting songs were sung. You should have seen the sheer bliss that covered the faces in the audience, with many of the lined faces suddenly looking emotionally charged. Or when you read Gabriel Garcia Marquez8217;s Memories of My Melancholy Whores,where the 90 year old man finally falls in love with a 14 year old girl, after having slept with more than 514 professional whores! Love for the first time for this 90 year old! And without any of the sexual frills involved! As Marquez writes, 8216;8216;sex is the consolation one has for not finding enough love.8217;8217;

Why do we sit and hum along with the verse of those bygone poets of our land? It is because those emotions laden words still transport us. Big days or big occasions don8217;t really matter if that binding force of emotions is there. Fortunate are those who find it and sad-eyed are those who don8217;t.

Last summer while I was interviewing Ruskin Bond I asked him about his love life and it was so very touching to hear the bachelor bare the truth 8212; he is still waiting for that emotional thing to happen. Each time he8217;d read that weekly forecast in the papers, he said, he8217;d sit up expectantly waiting for something terribly romantic to take off. Nothing happened, till last summer at least8230;

But, then, that hope keeps many in wait. To borrow from Majrooh Sultanpuri8217;s lines: 8216;8216;You are repeatedly told that the path from the thorn to the rose is strewn with desolation/ Yet, the power of my passion insists that the garden is round the corner from the desert8221;.

 

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