‘What I want from love today is…’: Arjun Kapoor on his perception of an ideal relationship and future marriage plans

For Arjun, love isn’t about being inseparable but about finding comfort in one another’s presence. “There has to be comfort and ease. You should’ve to look forward to going back and spending time with your person after finishing the day. Love doesn’t mean staying together with the person all the time. You should be wanting to genuinely build your life with them. It’s necessary for two people to understand each other’s professions, too,” he added. 

But what does this perspective say about modern relationships and how people define love today? An expert weighs in.

Importance of shared silence in a relationship, and what it says about emotional compatibility

Deepti Chandy, COO and therapist at Anna Chandy and Associates, tells indianexpress.com, “I think it’s important to qualify what kind of silence it is. If it’s a comfortable silence, it indicates high emotional compatibility and is a strong sign of emotional intimacy. However, if silence is used as a tactic for stonewalling or punishing, or if it feels uncomfortable for either partner, that is a concern.”

 

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If both partners are comfortable being together in silence, she says that it indicates a “deep emotional connection.”

Constantly being around each other vs. having space

Chandy notes, “Being around each other all the time does not necessarily strengthen a relationship. It’s important to find a healthy balance between togetherness and personal space. While there is a set of people who believe in the notion of a partner as your ‘other half’ and believe in spending all their time together,  which can lead to codependency rather than fostering a healthy interdependency.”

This idea of constantly being together is a fad, she continues, as modern relationships increasingly recognise the value of individuality. Personal space is essential for romantic relationships to thrive, allowing both partners to maintain their sense of self, pursue personal interests, and come together with renewed energy.

Interdependency means coming together for shared activities while also maintaining individual lives — having your own friends, interests, and personal space. This balance allows for a healthier, more sustainable relationship.