Marriage is about love and honour for Jessica Alba

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“There’s this mentality that you need the big dress and the big day,the day every girl gets to be a princess. I didn’t agree with any of that. This tradition of obeying your husband like he’s your king? It’s a load of crap. Love and honour,yes. But you should love and honour yourself too,and all your friends,” Alba said.

Alba admits she had a hard time agreeing to get married and was not comfortable with the idea initially.

“I had a hard time because I feel like its been warped. Originally,it was two families coming together to make a stronger family. It was about survival,not love or soul mates. And now the way they market marriage even as a kid through Disney movies is that it’s all about Prince Charming sweeping you off your feet,” she said.

“I chose to get married because,essentially,you’re given a deck of cards in life. The hand you were dealt with is your family and you can’t choose them,” Alba added.