
I8217;M a professional student, forever learning and imbibing. Constantly asking questions has its advantages. It kick-starts my motivation, fuels my inspiration and helps me understand life better.
Let me give you an example. I8217;ve been studying Tanuja over several years. That this gorgeous grannie carries her 61 years with more wallop than a bone dry martini, goes without saying. Her mother, the grand dame of Indian cinema, Shobhana Samarth, was also a riot of fun.
I8217;ve been trying to figure out what it is about these women that makes them pole vault over age and arrive at a zone of, if I may say so, perpetual youth?
Take Tanuja. The lady gurgles with laughter all the time. She laughs easily, laughs at herself, lives life to the hilt and is more active than ever. Her performance in the recent Khakhee is being praised, as also in last year8217;s Saathiya and Bhoot. Many more big projects are in the pipeline.
When she works, she works full gruelling days with ease. How does she do it? 8216;8216;It8217;s all in your thoughts and attitude,8221; says Tanuja.
She has learnt this from watching her mother and grandmother go through adversities of every kind and bearing them with a smile. From living in slums to living in a bungalow, sometimes not even having money to pay for petrol, Tanuja has been through it all. 8216;8216;Our mother taught us the dignity of labour. At the age of 10, I used to wake up at 5 am and water the garden,8217;8217; she says.
Tanuja lives all by herself in Lonavala. She regularly meditates and does yoga. Though a foodie, she is not a big eater. Neither is she fanatical about health food.
Tanuja looks as lovely as she did when I interviewed her 10 years ago, along with Samarth and Kajol for a television show. What came through after having spent a day with the three generations was the fiery spark they shared. And that spark continues to inspire me.
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