Ravi Dubey and Sargun Mehta spill the beans on their solid relationship, marriage: ‘I am in a delulu…’

“I just don’t come in the way,” he added, answering how he does that.

Sargun, 36, mentioned that Ravi does more than that; he doesn’t wait for any appreciation or acknowledgment from the world.

“Every night, every day in the morning, every time he sees me doing something, he tells me how great I am. And I don’t need to hear it from the world. If someone is constantly telling you how amazing you are, then that’s great. You will do the best. Then, you are ‘delulu’. So, I am in a delulu that I am good. So, he made me a better half. That’s how it worked,” Sargun continued.

Why being happy and celebrating each other’s success matters

A critical aspect of any relationship is mutual respect between people, what they do, and what they bring to the relationship, asserted clinical psychologist Kamna Chhibber.

“An integral component of what people do is their work, and being a part of the aspects associated with the same can impact the quality of the relationship. Those couples who appreciate the effort and work their partners put into their jobs tend to maintain an optimum level of support within the relationship, making it a healthy and interdependent space. Crucially important in this regard is the ability to also cheer the success that a partner might have,” said Chhibber.

Why celebrating each other’s success matters (Source: Freepik)

This is possible only if one can appreciate the other and see the relationship’s growth in the other person’s growth. “Being able to respond positively to your partner‘s growth strengthens and bolsters their confidence and boosts their self-esteem and feelings of worthiness. It makes them see you as a confidante and important support system, which ensures they seek you in both good and bad moments,” said Chhibber.

According to Chhibber, this strengthens the core of your relationship and ensures a positive experience that underlines the challenges that may come about.

It encourages both people to share the good and the bad and come together more effectively to tackle the different scenarios of life. “Taking the onus and responsibility of each partner to celebrate each other’s success and growth is important to maintaining overall positivity within the relationship,” added Chhibber.