Dating in this digital era can feel like navigating a minefield. Texting takes away the possibility of reading body language and non-verbal cues, and can make regular conversation feel like a daunting task, especially if it's with a stranger you just met. Good conversation helps people express thoughts, views, experiences and emotions in an engaging and authentic way . It sets the tone for trust and compatibility whether in friendships, romantic relationships, professional settings or first dates. While good conversation fosters connections and builds comfort, small talk can feel surface level or routine. Here are 5 ice breakers brought to you by relationship experts to get the ball rolling: Priya Parulekar said that a conversation starter should feel natural and engaging, not like an interrogation. Instead of firing off questions, share something about your self first. This invites your date to respond organically and keeps the dialogue flowing. 1 ) You could start with something that interests your date - Example - Your profile says you like hiking, which has been your most interesting hike? 2 ) You could start with a compliment to break the ice. For example - your profile looks awesome, you have a lot of hobbies. 3 ) Start with common interests- Example - looks like we both like coding, what’s been your most challenging project? 4 ) Talk about something funny - What’s the weirdest thing that has happened to you on a date? 5 ) Go with the flow - if your date seems reticent, speak about your self in a way they can relate to - Example - your experience giving that job interview, or some personal experience that is interesting. 6 ) Talk about future plans and goals. Speak for yourself first and let them follow. Rima Bhandekar, Senior Psychologist at Mindpower, Aditya Birla Trust added that you can direct the conversation to a “this and that” game – “Beaches or Wildlife Sanctuary as a getaway? This allows people to reply to you quickly, often based on their gut feeling or past experiences. The replies also divulge a person’s ideals, lifestyle, and interests, making the conversation flow more easily and naturally. You can also share an amusing story. "Start your conversation with a recent event that made you laugh or slightly embarrassed. Invite other people to share their own experiences. By doing so, you are evoking feelings of understanding and an easygoing outlook, which can boost honesty," she said. People enjoy informal and safe chats, especially when your wit is shown.
