Jennifer Lopez video chats with kids when away

“I am busy, and they know it. And they know part of their job is helping me get sleep. “If I’m sleeping in, they’re very quiet, like, ‘Mummy needs to sleep! She worked late last night!’ We’re a team. Becoming a mum makes you stronger but also more gentle, especially with yourself–and that changes everything.”

And the 46-year-old singer will even take pictures of herself beside her children’s beds when they’re sleeping at night if she gets in late so they know she was there at some point.