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R Madhavan reveals how he protected his marriage when girls were fawning over him: ‘Obviously this created insecurity’

In a new interview, Madhavan revealed the financial decisions he made post marriage to avoid instability in his relationship with his wife.

R Madhavan (3)R Madhavan speaks about securing his marriage with Sarita. (Photo: R Madhavan /Instagram)

Recently, AR Rahman and Saira Banu announced their separation after 29 years of marriage. Vandana Shah, who claimed to be representing them in the proceedings, appeared for several interviews to talk about the separation. More recently, she spoke to actor R Madhavan about the points that married couples should consider in the eventuality of a divorce. During the conversation, Madhavan said that his wife Sarita was insecure when he first started out as an actor. But certain financial decisions brought stability to their relationship, and they have been happily married for 25 years.

Discussing finances on the YouTube channel For A Change, Madhavan said, “I was an actor. I was starting off and was being hailed as the chocolate boy, and girls were fond of me. Obviously, this would create an insecurity for the woman. And having this insecurity is good enough for a marriage to become unstable. I used to ask my parents what they did, and they said, ‘We decided to spend our lives together so why assume that things are going to go wrong? We are going to say things are going to go right’. They always had a joint account for everything. I said, ‘That makes a lot of sense’.”

He added, “If Sarita is going to feel insecure every time she looks at her bank account. It is better that we look at it together and say, ‘This is a joint account, this belongs to both of us and you are an equal signatory on it.’ So, I am going to assume that this marriage is going to work and I am going to say that I trust you and I hope you trust me.”

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Madhavan shared this approach to finances “worked” for the couple quiet well. He said, “There was never a doubt about how much I am earning. She handles the whole economics. In fact, all the cars and properties we have bought so far… we are joint owners.”

The actor quipped, “I am one of the guys who lives off his credit card so all the money is with my wife.”

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Before becoming an actor, R Madhavan was a communication and public speaking coach. He met his wife there, while she was training to become an air hostess. In an interview with Times of India, the actor recalled that Sarita asked him out for a thank you dinner after she landed her first job. It was from this moment that their love blossomed.

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After dating each other for eight years, the couple tied the knot in 1999 in a traditional Tamil wedding. In 2000, he got the opportunity to star in Mani Ratnam’s film Alayi Payutham, which became an instant success. The couple have a son, Vedaant Madhavan.

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