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Bobby Deol struggled to form friendly bond with brother Sunny Deol, dad Dharmendra: ‘Growing up, you’re confused between fear and respect’
Bobby Deol looked back on his childhood, growing up in the shadow of his superstar father Dharmendra, and struggling to form a connection with his brother Sunny Deol.
Bobby Deol poses with his father, Dharmendra. (Photo: Instagram/iambobbydeol)Actor Bobby Deol, who started out in the 1990s and made a comeback some years ago after a period of inaction, looked back on his childhood as the son of superstar Dharmendra. He said that there would always be unknown people at their house, and he was brought up in fear of his larger-than-life father. In an interview, he admitted that they didn’t get much time to bond when he was young, but said that the roles have reversed now.
Appearing on the Humans of Bombay YouTube channel, the actor spoke about his evolving relationship with his brother Sunny Deol, and their father. “There’s a big age difference between me and my brother. He’s the eldest and I’m the youngest. So, he’s always treated me like a son. He’s always been protective about me, he’s always correcting me and saying that I get the best. It took a long time for me to get close to him, to become a friend. I had two father figures in my house,” Bobby said.
Asked his dad Dharmendra was strict with him, Bobby said, “That was normal then. It was also because my dad came from a small town. The society, and the culture, and the way people thought and lived was very different in small towns. The city changes your whole life. His dad was always strict with him, so it came naturally to him. My dad wasn’t strict, but he was never a friend while growing up. He was very busy, he was always at work. I would get to see him only for a few hours, and that would also be late at night or early in the morning.”
Now that his parents are older, Bobby said, the roles have reversed. “When you’re growing up, you get confused between respect and being scared. But it wasn’t being scared. It was respect, but we didn’t know how to communicate easily with our parents. But the story has changed now. The whole thing is reversed. They’ve become older, so vulnerable. You have to look after them. Things change, that’s the circle of life.”
Bobby rebounded after several years of inaction in 2018, with a supporting role in the film Race 3. He then went on to star in the streaming projects Class of 83 and Love Hostel, both produced by Shah Rukh Khan’s Red Chillies Entertainment. More recently, he played the antagonist in Sandeep Reddy Vanga’s controversial blockbuster Animal, and will next be seen in the film Kanguva, starring Suriya.


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