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When ‘frightened’ Dimple Kapadia said that she ‘never got a word of praise’ from Rajesh Khanna: ‘Spent all my energy doing what he wanted’

Dimple Kapadia witnessed Rajesh Khanna's decline first-hand, but felt shut out from his internal struggles.

Rajesh Khanna and Dimple Kapadia got married in 1973Rajesh Khanna and Dimple Kapadia got married in 1973. (Photo: Express Archives)

The late superstar Rajesh Khanna witnessed the pinnacles of success, but also the depths of failure. Dimple Kapadia was around for the second half. She married him when she was just a teenager. He was twice her age at the time. But almost immediately, she recognised that the marriage wouldn’t work. She left Khanna almost a decade later, in the early 80s, with their two daughters, Twinkle and Rinke, and reflected on her life with the superstar in an interview with Screen magazine in 1987.

Dimple was always in awe of the superstar, fondly known to his fans and admirers as Kaka. And he knew it. “Everywhere I went, I was told that I was the most gorgeous woman in the world. But I never got a word of praise from him. It was as if he hadn’t noticed me,” she said. Dimple wore what she liked and interacted with who she wanted, but at the end of the day, it was his approval that mattered the most, the article noted.

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“I was always waiting for some reaction, but it never came. All my energy was spent in doing what he wanted and anticipating his approval. It was like climbing a ladder. No matter how fast I climbed, he was still many rungs ahead,” Dimple said. She was also a first-hand witness to Khanna’s decline. “He neither shared his happiness nor his sorrow and I was too frightened of giving him any kind of support. All I could do was wait in attendance just in case he needed me,” she said.

Rajesh Khanna married actor Dimple Kapadia in 1973. They have two daughters, Twinkle Khanna and Rinke Khanna. (Photo: Express Archives) Rajesh Khanna married actor Dimple Kapadia in 1973. They have two daughters, Twinkle Khanna and Rinke Khanna. (Photo: Express Archives)

In another interview, this was conducted in 1985, when she was re-launching the acting career that she had put aside during her marriage, she said, “It was my first encounter in life with failure. When a successful man goes to pieces, his frustration engulfs the entire surroundings. It was a pathetic sight when Rajesh waited at the end of the week for collection figures but the people didn’t have the guts to come and tell him.”

After she separated from Khanna, Dimple moved back in with her mother. At an event in Jaipur, she praised Twinkle for the responsibility that she showed. “She’s an amazing child. She must have been all of seven or eight when I got separated. The kind of maturity… She was only wanting to take care of me, to see if I was okay, if everything was alright with me,” she said.

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