Parenthood is a big responsibility. I realise this as I get ready to bring up my daughter to be a responsible human being and a good citizen of the country. Material gifts she will get in plenty, not only from me but from all her elders and well wishers. Some of these will last for a few months, others for a few years. None of these will be lifelong. But there are some gifts I will give her that will last her a lifetime provided she takes good care of them and nurtures them.They are:Belief in God - As a friend who is constantly with her, through the thick and thin of life and not as somebody who watches over her from his high abode in heaven. God, as one with whom she can discuss her problems.Pride in our nation - It is very common nowadays to hear people saying ``What is there in this country but poverty and corruption'. Everyone, especially the elite and intellectuals want to go abroad and settle there. I will tell my child all the positive aspects and negative aspects of our country. I will help her in accepting our country as it is and work towards its progress.Respect to elders - To be polite and respectful towards anybody elder to her as long as that person is polite and deserves that respect.Good habits- Reciting prayers in the evening, brushing one's teeth twice a day, washing ones hands and feet everytime you come in from outside, keeping rooms clean and tidy and using clean clothes. All these are small things that go a long way in developing one's personality.Honesty towards herself- Whatever she does, however she behaves, as long as she herself feels it is alright, its okay. The moment her conscience gnaws at her she should abandon her pursuit and mend her ways.Perseverance-the ability to pursue a matter to its finish, to rest only when the goal is achieved, may it be in work, play or studies. To be at it without giving up however high the odds might seem.Thirst for information-Many people live their lives just thinking about trivial things. To acquire knowledge about the world, gather information from various sources and to read books is something I will introduce her to.Ability to defend herself- Something which is very important in today's competitive world. She should not take a false accusation lying down and should be able to defend herself verbally. Physical defense too is a must and I will send her for training in any one of the martial arts.Confidence in herself- This I consider to be the most important gift I can give her. Of course I cannot give her confidence as if it were some thing, but I can help her build up confidence in herself.
