When they finally gather to exchange notes they will have varied tales to tell each other but diplomats camped here to watch the Kashmir Valley go to the polls will probably agree on one thing: What they have been calling the most dangerous place on earth wasn’t so dangerous after all, at least not on today’s evidence. ‘‘Oh it’s a stroll on a lovely day,’’ one of them said somewhere on the gorgeously wooded strip between Sopore and Gulmarg, ‘‘A bit lonely but you might have expected that. It’s been a stroll all right.’’ The threat of widespread and bloddy sabotage triggered from across the menaced borders had largely remained a threat. Allegations that the uniformed guns within would coax and coerce remained, by and large, allegations. And betwixt the two stories that did not happen today, lay the many shades of Kashmir’s consistently grey story.