Spanish youths are busy using upside-down pineapples to find love; here’s what experts say about this viral trend

As dating apps are getting mundane, people are resorting to different ways to have fun while finding potential partners.

By: Lifestyle Desk

New Delhi | September 7, 2024 03:30 PM IST

3 min read

Spain's youngsters have been flocking the Mercadona supermarket chain with grocery baskets in tow, placing an upside down pineapple to signal their availability in the dating world. (Source: Freepik)

Tired of dating apps? Want to meet the love of your life but aren’t sure where to start? TikTok has brought to light a recent trend connecting single Spaniards in the most unexpected place – grocery store aisles. The ‘upside-down pineapple’ trick has gone viral.

Spanish youngsters have been flocking to supermarkets with an upside-down pineapple in their shopping baskets, subtly signalling their availability in the dating world. This quirky sign provides a clear way for potential suitors to initiate a conversation, and helps in avoiding the usual ambiguity and awkwardness associated with traditional dating approaches.

This trend reflects a broader shift in modern dating and social interaction, one driven by changing behaviours and societal norms.

“The digital mindset of expressing interest through subtle signs like likes, follows etc. transfers into real-world scenarios, making indirect signals, like the upside-down pineapple, appealing for those hesitant about face-to-face approaches,” said Aashmeen Munjaal, ontologist and mental health and relationship expert.

According to her, the fear of rejection plays a big role in this trend’s popularity. “Indirect methods offer a buffer against the vulnerability of direct confrontation, allowing individuals to test the waters without risking personal embarrassment,” Munjaal said.

This method also provides a more comfortable way to express interest for those who are introverted or shy. It’s a gentle and non-intrusive way to spark connections. Privacy is another factor; these subtle signals offer a level of discretion that dating apps and direct approaches often lack.

According to her, the desire for novelty also fuels interest in unique and memorable dating practices like these, given dating apps are getting mundane.

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Some individuals may struggle with shyness or introversion, making it difficult for them to express their interest directly. (Source: Freepik)

“With so many dating apps available, people now have endless options, leading to less patience in getting to know someone compared to the past, when relationships developed more organically,” said relationship coach Priya Parulekar.

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She explained that while there are more choices, dating still requires time and effort, which is increasingly scarce. “Young professionals are focused on their careers, leaving little energy for messaging or meeting new people after long workdays,” she said. This has also led to newer dating trends like “situationships,” where people are unsure about committing or where commitment is delayed.

“Financial dynamics are also undergoing a change; partners are splitting bills when dining out. The need for providing is getting redundant. Social acceptance to being single or not married is largely being accepted as a matter of choice rather than not a choice,” said Parulekar.

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