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Hina Khan, who is currently battling stage 3 breast cancer, feels blessed to have beau Rocky Jaiswal in her life. Taking to Instagram, the Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai shared a heartfelt note for the “best human I know,” revealing that he has been by her side throughout her journey and even shaved his head when she had to.
“He shaved his head when I shaved, and he only let them grow when mine started growing back. To the man who looks after my soul, to the man who always says ‘I GOT YOU’. To the man who is always by my side even if there are hundred reasons to give up…To this selfless man who only knows how to hold on. We have been with each other through so much.. through every thick n thin.(sic)”
She added that they have lived a “lifetime together and have stood with each other,” from seeing through the toughest of times when they faced health challenges during the pandemic to losing their fathers. In the reel, Rocky can be seen massaging Hina’s legs, packing her tiffin, and even feeding her, giving us a glimpse of what true love looks like. She further shared that he chose to stay with her during the raging Covid-19 pandemic. “He wore 3 masks all day but made sure he took care of me. That’s him! Specially during this phase of my diagnosis. He left everything and has been looking after me.”
From the day of her diagnosis news, Rocky has shown her immense support, for which she is extremely grateful. “From preparing a list of questionnaires before we met any of the doctors to doing his side of the research so that he can make sure I am going ahead in the right direction. From the day we started the chemo to this very day when I am going through my radiation, he has been my guiding light. From cleaning me up to dressing me up, he’s done it all..He has created a field of impenetrable Protection around me,” she wrote, adding: “YOU are the best thing that has happened to me…”
“The way you have shown up when it wasn’t easy, fixed me and fixed everything around..The way you stayed, you have taught me to love myself first, you have made it so easy for me to breathe, Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I am so sorry if I hv ever hurt you, which i know i have. We both have laughed, cried, wiped each other’s tears before and during this time. And we shall continue to do so for the rest of our lives. I LOVE YOU. You are truly a GOD’S BLESSING. All my doctors and Hospital staff often tell him THIS. Aur aaj mai bhi bolti hoon I wish such blessing of a MAN is in every woman’s life. @rockyj1 KYA HO TUM”.
It is a known fact that cancer is not just a physical battle but it takes an emotional and mental toll on the patient. Many patients are reported to feel frustrated, agitated, depressed, anxious, lonely, and sad. “A supportive partner can help with the encouragement that the other partner needs during the overwhelming journey. A partner plays a vital role when it comes to accompanying him/her to appointments and treatments. Remember, a partner’s presence can ease feelings of isolation and fear of abandonment,” said Dr Tirathram Kaushik, consultant oncosurgeon, Wockhardt Hospitals Mira Road.
The partner can ensure that the patient is not facing this journey alone and can calm down the patient with mere gestures such as holding hands, assisting in daily chores, or going together for walks, elucidated Dr Kaushik. “Moreover, partners can offer emotional stability in the face of adversity and opt for relaxation techniques such as meditation together. The partner’s ability to listen without judgment, celebrate small victories, and provide comfort will help the loved one to overcome cancer and bounce back with renewed hope and positivity. The partner should continuously motivate the loved one who will be able to feel safe and reassured,” said Dr Kaushik.
Clinical psychologist Kamna Chhibber said that most people tend to be available to help in the immediate aftermath of a situation. However, continued support is a must to ensure the person can cope effectively throughout a health crisis.
“This means doing regular physical check-ins, asking the person how they are feeling, reminding them that you are available to speak or help with anything that might be needed, as well as reassuring them about their ability to cope with or navigate situations that might be challenging,” said Chhibber.
DISCLAIMER: This article is based on information from the public domain and/or the experts we spoke to. Always consult your health practitioner before starting any routine.
