‘Main bhi hairaan hoti hun ye meri beti hai’: Madhu Chopra on being proud of daughter Priyanka; why it’s important to express it publicly

This candid confession reflects the immense admiration and surprise even a mother feels watching her child achieve greatness. Chopra also admitted that, at times, Priyanka’s words and achievements take her by surprise. “Haan, main abhi bhi hairaan ho jati hun kai baar uski baatein sunkar chaunk jati hun vaah, kaha se iske dimag mein baatein aai. (There are moments when I hear her speak, and I wonder—where does she get these thoughts from?)” she added. This deep appreciation showcases how parents can continue to be amazed by their children’s growth, no matter how much they achieve.

The importance of expressing parental pride publicly

While pride in one’s children is often private, expressing it publicly carries significant value. Acknowledging achievements out loud strengthens family bonds and reassures children—no matter their age—that their hard work is recognised and appreciated.

According to Srishti Vatsa, a counselling psychologist, family expectations shape many of our personal decisions. Parents often expect children to follow unspoken societal norms, especially regarding career and personal life. Vatsa explains that anxieties about “suitable timing” and societal pressures usually stem from parental fears. “Be conscious of where your fears are coming from,” she advises. “This pressure should not take away the practical aspect of being emotionally and financially ready” .

Publicly expressing can serve as a powerful counter to such pressures, reinforcing their confidence and personal agency. In an Indian context, where family values hold immense weight, setting boundaries between familial expectations and personal choices is key. As Vatsa notes, it’s crucial to have “family conversations to understand where family influence needs to end, and personal agency should take over.”

For Priyanka Chopra, whose journey from Bollywood to Hollywood has broken many barriers, this kind of recognition from her mother is not just a personal victory but a message to countless others striving to carve their own paths.

How to support and celebrate loved ones’ achievements

Madhu Chopra’s words serve as a reminder that parental pride and encouragement can be a great source of strength. Here’s how you can apply this in your relationships:

• Acknowledge Growth – Whether it’s a small accomplishment or a significant milestone, recognizing progress helps build confidence.
• Express Appreciation Openly – A simple statement like “I’m so proud of you” can have a lasting impact.
• Celebrate Achievements Publicly – Just as Madhu Chopra did, sharing pride with others can reinforce a loved one’s sense of accomplishment.
• Encourage Personal Choices – Support doesn’t always mean agreement; it also means respecting and trusting someone’s journey.
• Have Open Conversations – Honest discussions about aspirations, fears, and struggles can strengthen relationships and provide emotional reassurance.

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