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Journalism of Courage
Parineeti Chopra and Raghav Chadha have captured the public’s attention with their unique partnership, bridging the gap between Bollywood glamour and political responsibility.
For the first time, the couple appeared together for an interview in India TV’s show Aap Ki Adaalat where they spoke about their marriage. The couple’s playful banter highlighted their close bond and easy camaraderie. During the interaction, Chadha, an AAP (Aam Aadmi Party) MP, joked, “We are happily married… she is happy and I am married. Dekhiye hum samjhauta kar lete hain… main apni galti qabool leta hu, yeh mere se sehmat ho jaati hai ki aapki galti thi, bas sab problem thik ho jaati hai (See, we compromise — I admit my mistakes, and she agrees that it was my fault. And just like that, all problems are resolved).”
He further remarked, “Mujhe aisa lagta hai ki humari shaadi achchi chal rahi hai aur achchi isiliye chal rahi kyunki mujhe Bollywood ka B bhi nahi aata aur isse politics ka P bhi nahi aata. Isiliye humari gaadi badi achchi chal rahi hai” (I think that our marriage is going well because I don’t know even the ‘B’ of bollywood and she doesn’t have any clue about the ‘P’ of politics),” highlighting their distinct worlds and how love connects them despite professional differences.
“Mujhe inki awaaz acchi lagti hai, toh ye jitna bhi bolti hai, mujhe accha hi lagta hai (I love the sound of her voice, so no matter how much she talks, I always enjoy it),” Chadha added.
This raises an interesting question: Is it necessary to deeply understand your partner’s profession to make a relationship work, or is love and mutual respect enough?
Gurleen Baruah, an existential psychotherapist at That Culture Thing, explains that while it’s not necessary for partners to fully understand each other’s professions, recognising the value it brings to the relationship can deepen emotional intimacy. “Taking the time to learn a little about what your partner does allows you to glimpse the world through their eyes — what excites them, what frustrates them, and what gives their daily life a sense of purpose,” she says.
Engaging with each other’s work through questions or thoughtful conversations sends a powerful message: “I see you, I’m interested in you, and I care about the things that matter to you.”
Baruah explains that the impact of not understanding a partner’s career depends on the couple’s dynamics. For some, it’s not an issue, while for others, it may lead to challenges, especially when one partner works in a demanding field like entertainment, with late hours and irregular schedules. Without understanding these demands, “a partner might feel neglected or undervalued, which can strain the relationship,” she says.
The key challenge, she notes, often comes from misaligned expectations. If one partner doesn’t grasp the gravity of the other’s responsibilities or the reasons behind their stress and exhaustion, it can lead to frustration or feelings of being unsupported. “Overcoming these challenges requires open and honest communication,” Baruah adds. Discussing schedules, pressures, and motivations fosters understanding, even if every detail isn’t known.
Flexibility and empathy are crucial. Ultimately, Baruah says, “It’s about finding a balance that works for both people,” with empathy and mutual respect helping couples navigate these challenges and grow stronger.
Baruah explains that the benefits of maintaining separate professional worlds depend on a couple’s values and how much understanding each other’s work matters to their dynamic. She notes that having distinct careers can preserve individuality and reduce work-related conflicts, while also offering freedom for personal growth without feeling scrutinised. However, she questions, “How sustainable is this over time?” Without some understanding of a partner’s profession, separation could eventually feel isolating or lead to misunderstandings.
She stresses that partners don’t need to know every detail of each other’s work but should cultivate a basic understanding of its values, motivations, and challenges.
