Marriage isn’t the problem. The fear of losing myself is
I love living alone, and as I prepare to get married, I’m surprised by how much I fear losing the independence I’ve built. I’m excited to share my life with someone, but I also want to retain the quiet mornings, personal routines and freedom that have become part of who I am. For me, marriage isn’t about giving up myself, but learning how to make space for “us” without losing “me”.