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Dominika also urged travellers to look beyond the usual tourist hotspots in India
Amid the usual flood of glossy travel reels on social media, one Instagram post has stood out, mainly because of its honesty. A Polish woman living in India, Dominika Patalas Kalra, has recently shared a reel that is now doing the rounds online, not for dramatic visuals but for the everyday truths she picked up only after spending real time in the country.
Instead of showing a postcard version of India, Dominika chose to highlight the small realities that shaped her stay. Dressed in a lehenga, her reel opens with the line, “I wish I knew it before I came to India,” followed by five observations that push back against common assumptions foreign tourists often carry.
Her first point addresses the culinary myth that worries many newcomers. “Not all food here is spicy, you just have to know which place to choose,” she wrote, something that struck a chord with viewers who agreed that India’s cuisine is far more varied than outsiders imagine.
One of her strongest remarks came when she tackled a stereotype that refuses to fade. “If you think India is poor, then you have 2 options: don’t come here or notice how many people are driving luxury cars and have a comfortable lifestyle much better than in Europe.” This sparked a lively discussion in the comments about how skewed perceptions shape how countries are viewed from afar.
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Dominika also urged travellers to look beyond the usual tourist hotspots. Exploring local neighbourhoods, she said, can offer a far more authentic understanding of India than sticking to the typical bucket-list spots, and she wound up appreciating the warmth she has received here.
“Indians treat foreigners like ‘guests’ and want them to feel comfortable in every situation.” People responded with similar personal experiences, turning her comments section into a thread of shared stories.
What began as a simple reel soon turned into a broader conversation about how real experiences, not stereotypes, shape one’s view of a place as vast and layered as India.
One viewer responded, “It is not better than Europe, but not every place on earth can be Europe… India is growing in its own way rather than having a prejudice people need to have open mind.”
Another added, “respect for actually showing our culture in good light.”