This is an archive article published on February 16, 2011
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What kind of change is coming to a people that hate change?

Written by: Sudeep Paul
5 min readFeb 16, 2011 12:05 AM IST First published on: Feb 16, 2011 at 12:05 AM IST

The Bengali cuisine is extremely nuanced,and misplacing or mistiming a tiny ingredient can spoil it all. But the ferocious desperation with which my neighbour in Delhi clings to every detail in instructing his cook — as if the quintessence of being Bengali depended on it — is replicated in his family’s daily pilgrimage to relatives and friends in Chittaranjan Park. It might seem perfectly innocuous. However,what this family whines about all the time is the lack of Bengali company — notwithstanding their kitty parties or evening soirees,and the instant invitation they extend to any Bengali they come across.This isn’t about perpetuating the delights of tedious culinary routines slipping away from us,or even the Bengali adda. This is about a phenomenon called “resistance to change”. Although it manifests itself acutely among Bengalis living away from Bengal (nothing exclusively Bengali),it derives from a more sinister resistance to change that characterises a state abhorring every step towards the world as it exists.

No community’s middle-class goes to a glitzy mall or eats out with as much guilt dogging them,or sneers at women in Western wear,or insists as much on the mother staying at home so that the kid doesn’t grow messed up. That is,admittedly,not in the criminal category of the conservatism witnessed still so often in the north Indian heartland. But it’s criminal enough,given the liberal veneer that the idea of being Bengali still retains.

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