‘There was never a question of conversion’: Sonakshi Sinha says religion wasn’t a factor in her marriage to Zaheer Iqbal; here’s what makes such relationships work

Sonakshi also added that they decided to opt for the Special Marriage Act, which allows individuals from different faiths to marry without religious conversion. “The best way for us to get married was under the Special Marriage Act, where I, as a Hindu woman, did not need to change my religion, and he, as a Muslim man, remained the same. Two people in love, coming together in marriage — that was all that mattered. There was never a question of conversion. We love each other, and that was enough,” she stated.

While public discourse often fixates on differences, Sonakshi’s perspective raises a deeper question — how can individuals in interfaith relationships build strong foundations beyond cultural or religious identities?

Psychologist Anjali Gursahaney tells indianexpress.com, “Interfaith couples can build strong and lasting relationships by prioritising shared values, open communication, and mutual respect. Instead of focusing on religious differences, they should align on core principles like kindness, honesty, and life goals. Open discussions about potential challenges, such as family expectations and future parenting, can help prevent misunderstandings and foster a deeper connection. Respecting each other’s beliefs, even without practicing the same faith, strengthens the bond by acknowledging and valuing traditions. Creating personal rituals that reflect both partners’ perspectives can further enhance unity, while a strong emotional connection — rooted in love and commitment rather than external pressures — remains essential for a successful and harmonious relationship.”

 

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The role of upbringing in prioritising religion in relationships

A person’s upbringing plays a crucial role in shaping how they view religion within relationships. Gursahaney explains that:

• Strict Religious Households: Individuals raised in devout homes may find it harder to separate faith from romantic compatibility.
• Exposure to Diversity: Those who grew up in multicultural or secular environments may be more open to interfaith relationships.
• Parental Influence: Some parents instill flexibility, while others emphasise religious continuity in marriage.
• Personal Spiritual Journey: As people grow, their religious views may evolve, making early childhood beliefs more or less significant in adult relationships.

Encouraging acceptance and understanding in families and communities

For interfaith relationships to thrive, families and communities must foster inclusivity and open-mindedness. Gursahaney highlights several ways to achieve this:

• Education and Awareness: Open discussions and exposure to diverse religious perspectives can reduce bias.
• Role Models and Representation: Positive interfaith relationship examples in media and real life help normalize such unions.
• Encouraging Dialogue: Families should engage in conversations rather than imposing rigid expectations.
• Respect for Individual Choice: Communities should acknowledge that faith is personal and love transcends religious labels.
• Interfaith Gatherings: Celebrating festivals together fosters unity and strengthens family bonds.