‘Saif didn’t…: When Kareena Kapoor Khan revealed Saif didn’t stay a night post-delivery, while Ranbir was by Alia’s side for a week; importance of partner’s physical presence

In response, Kareena was quick to call her cousin a “lovely husband” and compared his involvement to Saif’s. She added, “That means you’re such a lovely husband. I mean, like, look at it. Saif didn’t stay one night with me at the hospital.” 

How significant is a partner’s physical presence in the hospital after childbirth, and does it long-term impact the mother’s emotional well-being?

Relationship coach Varinder Manchanda tells indianexpress.com, “This brings attention to how important a partner’s presence is during such a vulnerable time for a new mother.”

While not staying overnight or being present with your partner might not have long-term effects, he adds that it can impact a mother’s emotions in the moment. “Having her partner by her side helps her feel safe, supported, and emotionally stable. If he isn’t there, she might feel lonely, overwhelmed, or even question whether he’s ready for the responsibilities of fatherhood,” he adds. 

 

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Some healthy ways for couples to communicate their expectations about support and involvement during and after childbirth

Manchanda says that the key to avoiding misunderstandings like this is open and honest communication. “Couples should discuss their expectations in advance so both partners understand what’s needed. A father’s involvement — both physically and emotionally — plays a huge role in a mother’s healing process, giving her the strength and reassurance she needs,” he notes.

How can busy fathers offer meaningful support even if they can’t stay at the hospital?

If work or other commitments make it impossible for a father to stay in the hospital, Manchanda suggests that there are still ways he can show support. He says regular video calls, arranging for close family members to be present, and checking in on her emotional well-being can make a difference. Small gestures like acknowledging her struggles and being available emotionally can help her feel loved and cared for.

Ultimately, while physically being there is ideal, what matters most is ensuring the new mother feels supported and valued. Thoughtful actions and emotional connection can go a long way in ensuring a smooth postpartum experience and strengthening the bond between partners.