‘Har teen mahine mein…’: When Akshay Kumar opened up about chasing money in his early career; how our outlook evolves with stability

For him, money is not only about security but also about joy and experiences. “Enjoying money, yes, I enjoy money. The most important thing for me is the holidays, which I plan with my family. Har teen mahine mein, mere family ke saath ek holiday rehta hai (I go on holiday with my family every three months),” he added, highlighting how he uses financial stability to create meaningful memories.

So, why do many people initially place such strong emphasis on acquiring money?

Snehasish Das, a quantitative finance expert, tells indianexpress.com, “In the early stages of a career, money often represents security and freedom. Most people begin with limited savings and a strong desire to escape financial uncertainty, so the focus naturally rests on earning and building a safety net. Once basic needs are met and a level of stability is achieved, the relationship with money tends to evolve.”

The drive to accumulate for survival gives way to priorities such as meaningful experiences, personal growth, and using wealth to create impact. People begin to view money less as an end goal and more as a tool that supports a fulfilling life.

How can individuals strike a balance between enjoying money in the present and planning responsibly for the future?

The key is to create a financial framework that honours both current desires and long-term security. Setting clear percentages for saving, investing, and discretionary spending helps maintain discipline while allowing room for enjoyment. 

“Automating savings and investments ensures future goals are met first, which then frees the mind to spend guilt-free on experiences or small luxuries in the present. Regularly reviewing one’s budget and life goals keeps this balance aligned with changing circumstances,” mentions Das. 

In what ways can people use their financial resources to strengthen family bonds and overall life satisfaction?

Money can be a powerful enabler of shared memories and mutual support. Das mentions that funding family experiences such as travel, celebrations, or learning opportunities creates lasting connections that far outlive any purchase. 

“Supporting a child’s education, helping parents with healthcare, or contributing to community causes can instill a sense of purpose and togetherness. When financial decisions are made with the family’s emotional well-being in mind, wealth becomes more than numbers in an account; it becomes a source of unity and satisfaction,” concludes the expert.