Sudha Chandran acted in the female version of Amar Akbar Anthony, met her husband on the film set

Sudha further revealed that was during the making of this unreleased film that she met her husband, Ravi Dang, who was serving as an associate director on the project. “In that film, my husband was the associate director. I used to feel that all frustrated actors ended up becoming assistant directors, and that desire to act always stayed inside them. He was six feet tall and good-looking. I would often think he must have come to become an actor but couldn’t succeed, so now he was roaming around carrying files.”

Their first interactions, Sudha Chandran admitted, were far from warm. “I used to look at him and say ‘Good morning,’ but he never responded. I thought he was very arrogant for an associate director. One day I asked him, ‘What’s your problem? Are you coming here after fighting with your girlfriend?’ He said, ‘I didn’t quite understand what you mean.’ So I asked him why he wasn’t responding to my good morning wishes. He said, ‘Ma’am, I am not being paid to say good morning. I am being paid to work, and I am working for my producer.’” That response left a lasting impression. “On hearing that, I realized, this man has substance.”

Mother wasn’t convinced for marriage

What followed was a gradual understanding, not just between the two of them, but between their families as well. As they grew closer, they began to consider marriage. Convincing her parents, however, was not simple. “My mother said she didn’t want anyone from the industry. Then I spoke to my father and told him that if I was getting married, I wanted to marry this man. He told me, ‘Sudha, I don’t know Ravi, but I know you. My daughter can never go wrong. If you have chosen him, then there must certainly be something in him.’”

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Marriage, Sudha Chandran said, turned out to be a source of strength. She described her husband’s support as crucial to the bold choices she made in her career, including her decision to take on the television show Kaahin Kissii Roz. “My husband told me, ‘Sudha, stop doing so many serials and do one solid show.’ I had just gotten married when I decided to begin Kaahin Kissii Roz. People warned me that my marriage would break because I would be working 24/7. But my husband said, ‘Forget what the world says. What do you want to do?’ He told me that the opportunity I had struggled for was at my doorstep. He was exactly like my father, he supported me throughout, and he continues to do so even today.”

Through the years, his reassurance, she says has remained constant. “He always tells me, ‘Why do you think so much? Good things are happening to you now, and good things will continue to happen in the future.’”