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Malaika Arora says she faced ‘judgment, backlash’ from friends, family during divorce with Arbaaz Khan; regrets marrying ‘so young’

Saying that she still believes in the institution of marriage, Malaika Arora, however, maintained that she no longer thinks it's ideal for her unless it happens organically in life.

Mentioning that she still believes in the institution of marriage, Malaika Arora, however, maintained that she no longer thinks it's ideal for her unless it happens organically in life.Malaika Arora with her former husband, actor Arbaaz Khan. (Express archive photo)

Although the taboo surrounding divorce is slowly fading and society is becoming increasingly accepting of people walking away from failed marriages, actor-entrepreneur Malaika Arora recently stated that the situation wasn’t the same even a few years ago. Recalling the reactions to her decision to part ways with her husband, actor-producer Arbaaz Khan, Malaika noted that she faced judgments even from those dear to her. After announcing their separation in 2016, Malaika and Arbaaz’s divorce was finalised in 2017.

“I faced a lot of judgment and backlash, not just from the public, but even from my friends and family. I was questioned about all my choices at that point. Nonetheless, I’m so happy that I stuck by my choices. I have no regrets. I didn’t know what was in store for me. I didn’t know what lay ahead. But I knew at that point, I needed to make that move in my life. I felt it was important for me to be happy. Nobody understands that; they are like, ‘How can you put your happiness first?’ But I was okay being on my own. At the most, what (would happen)? I won’t have work for a bit, and people will say certain things,” she said during a conversation with India Today.

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Malaika also called out the hypocrisy of some people who don’t judge or ask the same questions to a man who has made the same life and career choices as she has. “Unfortunately, those questions are never asked. Those eyebrows are never raised. At some level, it’s just understood that we live in a patriarchal society, and this is how things are. There is never any judgment when it comes to certain aspects in the case of men. Unfortunately, women have to bear the brunt of it daily. And if there’s a woman who moves away from the typical, she is no longer the ideal woman. Immediately, things are said, and fingers are pointed. But if you move away from that and make a life, set an example, then you’re doing something right,” she added.

Malaika Arora says she still ‘believes in marriage’

Saying that she still believes in the institution of marriage, Malaika, however, maintained that she no longer thinks it’s ideal for her unless it happens organically in life. “I do believe in marriage, but that doesn’t mean it’s meant for me. If it happens, great. But I’m not seeking it. I’m very content. I was married. Then I moved beyond that. I’ve been in relationships. But I am not jaded. I still love my life. I love the idea of love. I love being loved and sharing love. I love being in a situation where I can nurture something beautiful. So, I’m totally open to it. But at the same time, I’m not seeking it. If it happens… if it comes knocking at my door, then I will,” she noted.

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During the conversation, Malaika also mentioned that one piece of advice she would give her younger self is not to settle down so early in life. She got married to Arbaaz at 25. “Please don’t make the mistake of getting married so young. Yes, beautiful things have happened (during marital life), the best being that I had my kid early. But live and experience life a bit. Then take the call to settle down. Be financially and emotionally independent before you actually settle down,” Malaika added.

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