‘Couldn’t tell anyone’: Young ‘Amitabh’ of 300 films reveals sex abuse on childhood sets

Former child actor Ravi Valecha wants to create space for boys to speak about sexual abuse without shame or fear

Ravi Valecha sexual abuseRavi Valecha holds the world record for working in the maximum number of films as a child actor. (Photo by special arrangement)

Ravi Valecha was once a familiar face among India’s child actors, moving through film sets, outdoor shoots, and dubbing theatres with the easy familiarity of someone who had grown up inside the industry.

What the public saw was a working child. What stayed hidden for decades were the incidences of sexual exploitation that began when he was still very young and left marks that fully surfaced only much later.

Valecha, who began working at the age of four, holds the world record for working in the maximum number of films as a child actor—a total of 300—in various languages. Valecha was known for often playing the young Amitabh Bachchan. Some of his notable films include Amar Akbar Anthony, Coolie, Fakira, The Far Pavilions, and many other superhits of the 1970s and 1980s. Later, on growing up, he moved into the corporate sector and runs a successful hospitality services business today.

Yet the scars that came with showbiz never quite left him.

Valecha was around eight years old when the abuse began. “In the industry, it happened with me three times,” he recalled. Each episode of sexual abuse compounded the last. One took place in a dark dubbing theatre with a screen flickering, when an older man from the industry asked him to sit on his lap and Ravi was overcome with a sense of confusion followed by revulsion. Another involved a young secretary who had been hired to accompany the boy to shoots every day. Inappropriate touching in taxis and cars became routine.

Ravi Valecha sexual abuse Ravi Valecha runs a successful hospitality services business. (Photo by special arrangement)

“You can’t tell anybody… but you have to go with that person day in and day out,” he remembered. On one outdoor location, when parents were not present, the two shared a room. In the middle of the night, the boy, then about 11 or 12, felt someone on him and just lay still. “What do I do?” he recalled thinking. A third episode also occurred within the film unit’s working environment.

Valecha told no one at the time. “There was nobody I could talk to,” he said. The fear was constant: that parents may not believe him, might blame him, or that the truth would explode into something larger. In an era before widespread internet access or open conversation about such matters, silence felt like the only available protection.

‘Anger became a byproduct of suppressed pain’

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The trauma didn’t stay in the past. It followed Valecha into his personal life, his marriage, and his everyday habits. “Anger had become a byproduct of the suppressed pain,” he admitted.

After decades of not confronting the real issue behind it all, around a year and a half ago, Valecha began therapy. The first three or four weeks were almost wordless.

“I couldn’t even speak about it,” he said. His therapist worked with him using targeted exercises, and slowly, after nearly a month of sessions, fragments began to surface—memories so deeply suppressed that even Valecha himself hadn’t fully registered their extent.

“I did not know how deeply embedded that was in my mind, which came out in the therapy,” he says. “I myself had buried everything. Six months of therapy, he says, changed everything. “Today I’m very light. I don’t mind speaking to anybody about it.”

No solo movie outings

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Some effects persist. He still does not go to a movie theatre alone; the association with the dark dubbing space remains too strong. Anger that once flared without clear cause has eased but has not vanished.

“Even today, if I’m angry, I just tell my family: don’t talk to me, give me about half an hour to cool down,” he said. Looking back, he wishes the help had come far earlier. “I should have taken therapy when I was 12 or 13 years old.”

Now, drawing on his own recovery, Valecha wants to build something that didn’t exist for him as a child: a space for boys and men to speak about sexual abuse without shame or fear. He believes the problem is far more widespread—and far more silenced—than most people realise, spanning not just the film industry but corporate workplaces and beyond.

“It is not the film industry alone… it’s not a particular industry,” he says, pointing to his own two decades in the corporate world as proof that predators exist and the pattern repeats everywhere, regardless of gender.

Support space called MeAlso

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Valecha’s plan is practical and doable: anonymous support, weekly or monthly meetings, a small panel of psychologists who can guide conversation, and the option—never the obligation—to take formal steps if someone chooses to. The goal isn’t total resolution but simply the relief of being heard.

“I’m not saying 100 per cent trauma will go away” he said. “But just being able to come, speak about it and vent it out of the system will help them more than one can imagine.”

He has tentatively named his project MeAlso, as an offshoot of the MeToo movement. The name came about when a few years ago he wrote a set of fictional stories under the same title, intended as possible television or web episodes. He then registered the name with the Indian Motion Picture Producers Association (IMPAA).

“However, at that time I did not have the courage to go ahead. But today I am hoping the stories get made,” he said, adding, “It’s time to break the silence.”

Sunanda Mehta is the Resident Editor of The Indian Express in Pune. She is a distinguished journalist, columnist, and author with over three decades of experience in the media industry. Educational background: A merit-lister in her 12 th in CBSE (5th rank in Humanities) Sunanda stood first in History in the Board for which she was awarded the Dr Tarachand Gold Medal. She is a triple-graduate with a Bachelor of Arts (History Honours) from Lady Shri Ram College, New Delhi, Bachelor of Education, Delhi University (on scholarship) and Bachelor of Communication and Journalism, University of Pune. Professional Background Role: As Resident Editor, she oversees the Pune edition of The Indian Express, managing local news coverage, investigative features, and editorial direction for the city. Author: She is an accomplished author, known for her biographies. Her notable books include: The Extraordinary Life and Death of Sunanda Pushkar published by Pan Macmillan (2019). The book was long-listed for the Atta Galatta award for nonfiction and Auther award for best debut author. Majestic Musings - Translation of poems from 100 year old Badshaian from Punjabi to English (2023) Behind the Big Screen- the untold stories of child actors published by Bloomsbury India (2024) Focus Areas: While Sunanda has reported on various subjects from civic to political to investigative and crime, her forte remains long-form human-interest stories, heritage and gender issues. Core Column: "Against All Odds" Sunanda curates and writes a signature series titled "Against All Odds," which profiles individuals who have overcome significant personal, medical, or professional challenges. Recent notable articles (2025) The Story of Dr. Harinder Dhaliwal (July 2025): A Pune AFMC topper who became a neurologist in Canada despite becoming paraplegic. Jayoo Patwardhan’s Cancer Journey (Jan 2025): How the National Film Award-winning designer defeated cancer. Partha Iyengar’s Emergency mid-air (Aug 2025): The story of how Gartner’s India head survived a massive heart attack during a long-haul flight. Recent Notable Articles (Late 2025) Her recent reportage continues to explore deep personal narratives and Pune’s socio-environmental landscape: 1. Personal Narratives & Closure "'I grieved for him 10 years after his murder, found closure to unsolved case'" (Dec 14, 2025): A poignant feature on Vineet Alurkar, son of the late Pune music legend Suresh Alurkar, and how digitizing his father’s collection helped him heal. "A 40-day journey home: how Christopher Benninger's partner gave him the gift of memories" (Nov 23, 2025): A moving tribute to the late acclaimed architect Christopher Benninger and his final trip to the US. "'After 38 years I finally met my biological mother'" (Sept 28, 2025): Chronicling the journey of an adopted daughter from Zurich searching for her roots in Pune. 2. Civic & Heritage "'Vetal Tekdi belongs to common citizens'" (Oct 20, 2025): An interview with environmental activist Dr. Sushma Date on the community-led protection of Pune’s vital green lungs. "'Military village' Apshinge recalls living through war days" (Aug 12, 2025): A report from a village in Maharashtra where nearly every household has a member in the armed forces, focusing on their legacy and current anxieties. 3. High-Profile Commentary & Investigations "Malegaon blast acquittals: 'I was expecting this verdict'" (July 31, 2025): An interview with former special public prosecutor Rohini Salian following the controversial acquittals. "Grounded, license cancelled... she decided to soar higher" (March 30, 2025): The story of Dr. Harpreet A De Singh, Air India’s first woman pilot from 1988, and her transition to leadership and meditation. Signature Style Sunanda Mehta is known for her empathetic storytelling. Unlike standard news reporting, her features often read like narrative non-fiction, focusing on the psychological and emotional resilience of her subjects. One of her articles in The Indian Express titled 'The Quality of Mercy' was converted into a film Rubaru Roshini produced by actor Aamir Khan. She is a strong advocate for Pune's heritage and environment, frequently using her platform to amplify citizen-led movements. X (Twitter): @sunandamehta and @ExpressPune ... Read More


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