‘You thought I’d be scared?’ Brave Mangaluru woman writes Facebook post to the guy who harassed her

"I could've let it go because he didn't touch me or anything. But I didn't want to, because the past years of my life have been infested with these experiences," said Rashmi Shetty, who is pursuing MA in Buddhist Studies, Philosophy and Comparative Religions in Bihar.

By: Trends Desk | New Delhi | Updated: June 26, 2017 4:13 pm
sexual harassment experiences, mangalore sexual harassment, mangalore sexual harassment, mangalore facebook post on man, mangalore post on lewd man, indian express, indian express news This brave woman’s Facebook post is becoming viral on Facebook. (Source: Rashmi Shetty/Facebook)

Almost every woman in India has gone through at least one harrowing experience of dealing with a lurking harasser. Many have been followed, stalked, groped, catcalled and a lot of them have raised an alarm, hoping this does not happen to another woman or there is not ‘next time’ to this episode, yet not a day passes by without a new incident of sexual harassment against women cropping up.

Rashmi Shetty, a 22-year-old woman from Mangaluru, was also leered at, and as she told indianexpress.com, this was not the first time. But this time around she chose to not give the perpetrator the satisfaction of having scared her and chose to retaliate. Shetty wrote a scathing Facebook post, divulging the number plate of the guy’s scooter, which has since then gone viral.

“I could’ve let it go because he didn’t touch me or anything. But I didn’t want to, because the past years of my life have been infested with these experiences,” said Shetty, who is pursuing MA in Buddhist Studies, Philosophy and Comparative Religions in Bihar. “He has probably been reinforced in the past to have this kind of guts. So this time I decided to expose on such man on social media because I wanted to find out about him and teach him a lesson,” she said on being asked what prompted her to share her experience on social media.

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After she posted the photo of his number plate on Facebook, one of her friends on Facebook, got hold of the registration details of the vehicle, including the name of the owner, which she shared on her post thereafter.

Read the Facebook post here. 

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You thought I’d be scared, didn’t you? You thought I’d be ashamed, didn’t you?
I was followed by the guy who this scooter belongs to today in broad daylight. In a busy street in Mangalore. 3pm in the noon in the center of the city, from Aloysius degree college to Balmatta, to a guy dares to follow a woman who’s walking while there is a swarm of cops thirty steps behind.
You think you can halt a million times ahead of me and honk at me while I cross you as you take a good fucking look at my butt? And that would embarrass me enough to cry at my fate of being a woman in this country, this generation, this world? You think I’d freak out and run so fast that I fucking run into your arms? You think you stopping and making phone calls to your gang would would threaten me into never getting out alone? So confident that if I asked for help if never be able to prove your fault? And that people wouldn’t take my side or take me seriously?
Well, guess what? I take my side. These streets are as much mine as they are of undeserving assholes like you. You or a hundred like you will not scare me into staying home and not being free. This is a message from all the strong girls to you and your likes: if you try curtailing our freedom, we will fight back. And we will knock you down. I was only waiting for you to make a move so I can smack your face with my heels- the same ones you were trying so hard to catch up with. And you think you can do anything under the veil of anonymity? Here, I’m not anonymous anymore. And I won’t let you be either. And let me repeat, I’M NOT SCARED OF YOU.
I hope this reaches you somehow.
You thought I’d be scared, didn’t you? You thought I’d be ashamed, didn’t you?
You’re the one who should be both.
And yeah, F**K YOU.

Many of Shetty’s friends and other Facebook users have come forward and commended her for speaking out, hoping that the perpetrator is identified and caught soon.

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    Mohammed
    Jul 1, 2017 at 6:37 pm
    Well done.
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      Souptik Banerjee
      Jun 27, 2017 at 6:47 pm
      So Indian Express joins the league of newspapers and TV channels who run news from Facebook?
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          Irfan Ahmed Khan
          Jun 26, 2017 at 6:41 pm
          Brave Girl- u could just move few steps towards the cops(standing just 30 steps away as mentioned ) ... he could be caught there itself......but now the Punishment/ Decision shall be made as per the CCTV footage Between the mentioned locations.
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            Rajaalsahi
            Jun 26, 2017 at 5:58 pm
            Every rape and ual assault even leading to murder is predominantly done by Hindu young men all over India. Take any news of rape or ual assault reported in the press and you will see the terrorist would be a Hindu young man. Therefore I do not believe the scooter mentioned is the which was used to stalk harass her. Police will seek out the truth, if they plan to be fair.
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              Mohan
              Jun 26, 2017 at 4:48 pm
              The matter should be followed up with the police The lumpen should be taken to task by the law as an example to others with similar inclinations. CCTV on route either public or private should give enough proof of the harassment to jail the guy
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                Mohammed Mohammed
                Jun 26, 2017 at 4:43 pm
                The pic is of a parked vehicle and she says she was followed by the guy riding on the same.. Seems like a cooked up story to settle some score
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                  Desh bhakt
                  Jun 26, 2017 at 5:28 pm
                  You are a moron of the same filthy community. Imagine this was done to your sister. No wonder you fellows are the most hated in the world.
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                  Dc
                  Jun 26, 2017 at 4:38 pm
                  People will do Anything to get popular .
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                    Souptik Banerjee
                    Jun 27, 2017 at 6:48 pm
                    And I thought I'm the only one looking at the other side :-)
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