Renewing The Community

Triple talaq debate shows how Muslim women are challenging patriarchy

Written by Saumya Saxena | Published:May 30, 2017 12:05 am
Triple talaq, triple talaq rule, triple talaq new rule, supreme court, SC triple talaq, AIMPLB, Muslim board, India news, triple talaq news, indian epxress news he grounds for divorce for women are clearly laid out — men need not cite any. (Representational)

When our only argument for protecting the custom of triple talaq becomes that “not enough people are affected by it”, we clearly need to rethink what we understand by the rule of law and democracy, and perhaps recognise the colonial undertones of the logic of “non-interference” in the face of injustice. In a recent op-ed in The Indian Express (‘Unimportance of triple talaq’, IE, May 29), we find a rather luxurious use of statistics to make the argument that triple talaq, in fact, occurs extremely infrequently (0.4 per cent reported cases in a quoted survey). Clearly, now not only do surveys place “your stats versus mine”, but also use data to trivialise the very real struggles of many women.

It is certainly true that triple talaq is only the tip of the iceberg — focusing merely on the “spontaneity” or the haste in which a divorce is given serves to blur the larger problem of how such divorces are unilateral, an exclusive privilege of men. What makes this divorce “arbitrary” is not simply the spontaneous utterance of the word “talaq”, but the problematic notion that women are required to qualify their decisions under the codified provisions of the Dissolution of Muslim Marriages Act, 1939, whereas men are not. The grounds for divorce for women are clearly laid out — men need not cite any.

Thus, simply de-recognising talaq-ul-bidat and encouraging talaq-e-ahsan or talaq-e-hasan, which takes place over three months for men, still doesn’t address the fact that women lose their right to alimony and maintenance if they initiate divorce themselves under khula.

The problem is hardly exclusive to Muslim personal law. It stretches across religious law codes. For instance, till 2001, under Christian divorce law, men could seek a divorce on the grounds of adultery, but Christian women were required to prove not just adultery but cruelty as well in order to get a divorce. Under Hindu law, even after codification, it was not until 2005 that inheritance and succession law anomalies were addressed. There remains scope for much more legal reform in that direction.

Thus, trying to stall the triple talaq debate by citing small numbers is simply diversionary. The logic of “hardly any effected parties” was precisely what was relied on when many argued in favour of keeping Section 377 intact; homosexuality till date remains a criminal offence. If anything, the fact that the provision is hardly ever used is evidence of its redundancy in this age. While the fear about the debate becoming embroiled in politics is legitimate in times when lynch mobs decide menus and laws threaten to criminalise certain food preferences, the triple talaq phenomenon is different.

For a substantial period during the debates on personal law, one of the most oft-repeated statements has been about letting “reform come from within”. What we are currently seeing is a difficult, but healthy conversation between co-religionists about the interpretations of the Quran and Hadees. Women who had long been excluded from membership to the clergy across religions are now not simply relying on their “constitutional rights” or protections from the state. They are instead challenging the monopoly of men over matters of religion. This is a moment that marks the emergence of a new Muslim woman, who does not cower behind an all-male clergy that dictates to her, her own religion.

It is heartening to see two women recently appointed as qazis in Jaipur; one glass ceiling less for the women of India. Women are no longer faced with the awkward and unfair binary between “rights and religion” to choose from. They are demanding both. Remember that Shah Bano, the woman whose case (1985) triggered a storm that led the judiciary to enter the domain of the legislature and demand a uniform civil code, had in fact withdrawn her case, much before the Muslim Women’s Protection of Rights on Divorce Act, 1986 formally overturned

the Supreme Court judgement. Given this backdrop, it is extremely important to acknowledge that the new women’s movement is pulling off a bigger achievement, of attempting to salvage religion from the clutches of patriarchy. The numbers game must be rejected here. If the custom in question was sati, not triple talaq, would we still be making the argument that “very few” are affected by it, and therefore, it should be considered beyond the realm of judicial interpretation or legislative intervention?

While legal interventions certainly cannot be the finish line of feminist pursuits or social reform more generally, we cannot write off any form as discrimination as too minor to deserve a movement of its own.

The writer has a PhD in legal history from Cambridge University. She has worked with the Justice Verma Committee in 2012-2013. Views expressed are personal

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    Suresh
    Jun 1, 2017 at 1:00 pm
    What has been said in this article is very true. But the statistics that very few has been effected is incorrect. Indeed when a Muslim is divorced and she is again married she is not counted as a divorcee. Hence, such a figure is projected. Even uming but not conceding that a very few muslim women are effected in such inhuman way of divorce, why the community is not accepting that such triple talaq must go. Considering that only a very few are killed in a violence, should the law enforcing agency not take any action. Where is wrong to make these divorces amenable to law? Some give ludicrous example of kanyadan by Hindus at the time of marriage and compare it with triple talaq. It is not understandable that how kanyadan is effecting any of the rights of Hindu women. Even the right to succession of property act of 2005 has been brought to clarify certain issues of the previous 1956 Act. Hon'ble Supreme Court should ensure to completely liberate muslim women from the clutches of men.
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      Ehsan Habib
      May 30, 2017 at 11:37 pm
      You guys forgot about Sati tradition in India. Care to shed light on it.
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        Anil Kumar Tandale
        May 31, 2017 at 1:00 am
        How about Muslims in China where it is reported that ladies cannot wear hijb, veil, fast during Eid, cannot offer namaaz. Negotiate for better treatment, instead of talking about Hindus or Christians. No personal laws or oral divorce in Europe, Australia or Americas, why only in India?
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        Rare Gat
        May 30, 2017 at 9:31 pm
        The west is the land of no fault divorce most countries moving to no alimony. Even child support is equally shared and child rearing takes place alternate weeks with each parent post divorce. There is no legal restriction on outside marriage or even children outside marriage. a man can thus have 10 children with different partners and only be liable for 1/3 of his income towards child support. Work out the math!?? In islam the man remains the sole provider for his children pre and post divorce only exception being if the wife wants to take responsibility and husband agrees. In islam the man remains responsible for widowed sisters, mother,aunt's, and g mother s..
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          Ml Pandit
          May 30, 2017 at 8:17 pm
          Indian women fighting triple talaq practice might inspire Muslim women elsewhere, especially in the West, to challenge their confinement under head scarfs and veils?
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            Seshubabu Kilambi
            May 30, 2017 at 7:44 pm
            Muslim women are not only challenging patriarchy, they are also becoming role model for women of other religions to repulse make hegemony
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              chitta
              May 30, 2017 at 6:54 pm
              Increase p@pulation. Mary Hindu girls . Gain majority. Create own Govt. Make own rules. Why accept Hindu orders.
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                Anjam Desi
                May 30, 2017 at 4:01 pm
                Interesting how comments below justify practice of triple talaq because thousands of women in other communities undergo the same practice, so what's wrong with it? Not one person says that no more Muslim women should suffer this horrible fate. Thousands of Hindu women? Name 10 that have suffered that? Instead of helping women in your community to live better you want to see who makes their lives more miserable? No wonder Muslim women are revolting against this "convenient for men" practice. Regardless of their religion they are daughters of India first. Born of this soil they know how to fight for their rights. No Congressi Rajiv will take that away from them.
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                  Rare Gat
                  May 30, 2017 at 9:02 pm
                  In a country where a woman can sleep with a man for a year and then claim he "raped her on pretext of marriage!!" That w statement is illogical. Where aborting a female fetus is met with horror however aborting a male fetus is quite ok. You are worried about divorce? Yes divorce is bad but tying down reluctant spouses together is a recipe for disaster.
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                  zafar
                  May 30, 2017 at 3:54 pm
                  THE PEOPLE WHO TAKE AGNI PARIKSHA TO TEST THE VIRGINITY, WHO LOSE THEIR WOMEN IN GAMB MATCH, WHO BURN THEIR WOMEN FOR DOWRY,SHAVE HEAD OF A WIDOW AND LEAVE HER AT BANARAS,NEVER ALLOW A DIVORSE TO RE-MARRY,TURN THEM TO DEVDASI TO SERVE MANIAC PANDITS,KILL HER IN MOTHERS WOMB AFTER DETECTION,BURN HER ALIVE TO TURN HER INTO SATI,THESE PEOPLE ARE TEACHING MUSLIMS ABOUT WOMENS RIGHT, UPTILL NOW THESE MALE CHAVINISTIC FILTHY PEOPLE COULD NOT MAKE UNIFORM CIVIL CODE FOR HINDUS THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT MAKING UNIFORM CIVIL CODE FOR ALL RELIGIONS. Now don’t tell me to go to stan, this is what you cowards do when losing out on debates. Have guts face it first set your house in order before pointing figures on us
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                    Rajat
                    May 30, 2017 at 5:48 pm
                    Don't bring in things of past and mythology in this. How many women burnt today? How many wives gambled? What a perverse logic. That is why I always say Bring Uniform Civil Code, muslim men are never going to bring reform from within.
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                      Rajat
                      May 30, 2017 at 5:54 pm
                      These evil things don't happen anymore. However your people of your peace loving community still do evil. Like sel their wives to sheiks in the middle east and divorcing them on phone or whatsapp. Shame on you.
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                        Rare Gat
                        May 30, 2017 at 8:56 pm
                        How many Hindus sell their daughters and wife's . Check the govt statistics. Draupadi had 5 husband's you are talking about muslims .
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