Raising India: What a mother can teach the BJP

As someone who still halts when Jana Mana Gana is played, it gladdens my heart that revising the fundamental rights ahead of his annual examinations, my son wants to know how shouting slogans breaks any of those.

Written by Shalini Langer | Updated: February 22, 2016 10:33 am
jnu, jnu row, jnu protest, O P sharma, BJP backs O P sharma, jnu case, lawyers in jnu, lawyers beat students, lawyers beat jnu students, supreme court, supreme court on jnu BJP MLA OP Sharma assaulted a CPI leader at Patiala House Court earlier this month when Kanhaiya Kumar’s sedition case was to be heard.

Even BJP MLA OP Sharma, the guardian of Mother India, probably concedes that the least one expects from a mother is tolerance. Tolerance to grumpy teenhood, tolerance to indifferent adulthood, tolerance to bouts of anger, tolerance to minor rebellions — apart from the millions of times when she is just there, laughing indulgently.

Even Vikram Singh Chauhan probably concedes that as a nation we don’t leave patriotism to chance. From chapters on freedom struggle to those on freedom heroes, from national anthems to national songs, we truly, actually, sincerely believe for a long time (till hopefully we grow up) that Hindustan is “saare jahan se achha”.

Even ABVP national organising secretary Sunil Ambekar, who rubbishes the teaching of stories of the poor, Dalits, women, human rights and secularism, as “that goes against the Indian ethos and takes a turn against national security”, probably has seen at times a persecuted poor or a lower caste, even, god forbid, a woman. For, you know, these things are known to happen.

Even Smriti Irani, a mother of three as she emphasises, must know that when we send our children out in the world to study, we also want them to learn. About the world beyond their known boundaries, their books, their Facebooks and Instagrams. We want them to face indefensible truths, encounter their fears, meet “the others”, and make up their own minds about those closer.

Even Rajnath Singh has probably figured that the sight of a Delhi Police van promising reassurance was a very hard and very long battle. Still, I would not trust my daughter walking up to them for help. And after this week, given that he is a teenager high on emotions and quick with opinions, probably not even my son.

Mr Home Minister, you may have gathered that I am not the kind of patriot you would want me to be. Still, I happen to be a mother, the other being you would have us revere. And so, let me tell you, the faith that we are a democracy, resting on sound credentials and not just the size of the national flag we hoist, was one of the few things that I was thankful of when I thought of my children’s future here. In this past week, as police have entered campuses to drag out students, as an MLA has exhibited the kind of behaviour that would not be tolerated on a school ground, as lawyers (should we keep calling them that?) have assaulted the unarmed (never allowed, we tell our children repeatedly), as TV channels have reduced the meaning of patriotism to blind nationalism, and branded our kind as traitors, I have hung my head in shame.

As someone who still halts when Jana Mana Gana is played, it gladdens my heart that revising the fundamental rights ahead of his annual examinations, my son wants to know how shouting slogans breaks any of those. “Every citizen must uphold and protect the sovereignty, unity and integrity of India,” he reads out. “Does it mean we can’t criticise it?” Last evening, he wanted to know why OP Sharma had still not been arrested.

As a mother, I struggle to not let show that I have fewer and fewer answers.

You invoke Mother India, Sir, well I am raising two. This is not how mothers want their children, ever, to end up. You can ask Vikram Singh Chauhan’s mother, you can ask O.P. Sharma’s, you can even ask Afzal Guru’s should you care, but easiest still, you can ask Kanhaiya Kumar’s as he languishes in jail and she watches from thousands of kilometres away, unable to be by his side as he is assaulted on live TV minutes from the country’s seat of government.

If our concept of Mother India is that indelible image of a woman hauling the plough on her bare shoulders to raise her family, fighting off poverty and continuous assaults, you don’t have to look further than Meena Devi.

On the other hand, should after this episode, any of us mothers raise children who care enough to fight for beliefs as passionately, as strongly, and as non-violently, standing on the steps of a university with few around to hear, we would be in her debt.

shalini.langer@expressindia.com

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    Bharatk
    Feb 22, 2016 at 8:47 am
    The bhakths know only to milk the cow, rob its calf of milk, kill the cow for leather and beef. This is the noble ideology of the bhakts as they call cow their mother and unfortunately they have only as much respect fro mother India.
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      End.of.brahminism
      Feb 23, 2016 at 1:17 am
      What the FK is barat? It is a creation of Barb-Aryans to serve their ego. It is being shattered like gl by young Indians. Past generations have failed, were docile in digesting happily what ever they were fed by brahmin filths.
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        himanshoooo
        Feb 23, 2016 at 1:20 am
        Why do brahmins want everybody else to be like them? Doesn't that mean they are inviting everybody else to skrew their women folks?
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          Hakim
          Feb 22, 2016 at 6:11 pm
          Shalini Langer please stick to movie reviews. No one is interested in the mutterings of your insane mind
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            Hakim
            Feb 23, 2016 at 2:23 am
            Anand npally Is that your photo ? Man you ugly
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              Hakim
              Feb 23, 2016 at 1:40 am
              And u are Porki muzzie who should be impaled
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                Hakim
                Feb 23, 2016 at 1:39 am
                You should go f$$$and yourself
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                  Ganesh
                  Feb 22, 2016 at 5:08 am
                  All this verbose makes interesting reading to the arm chair elites ,,reality is something different
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                    Jayakumar
                    Feb 22, 2016 at 1:17 pm
                    What a sham. Please go ahead and teach your child your pseudo nationalism. I hope there are not many mothers like you in our punyabhoomi. Free don Cannot be at the expense of our national flag and our motherland . Sad that you have already sold your soul, next is your child.
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                      Rohith
                      Feb 22, 2016 at 3:12 pm
                      Really ... Are you now going to cut me out from comments ?
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                        Rohith
                        Feb 22, 2016 at 1:58 pm
                        ... And remember by weakening this country you are pushing the future of your child and of millions of others in dark ..., oh wait your family probably already had a Saudi citizenship
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                          Rohith
                          Feb 22, 2016 at 1:07 pm
                          And the true ideal mother for you is the Italian bar maid who has given birth to the oldest unemplo baby in the country , Pappu
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                            Rohith
                            Feb 22, 2016 at 12:25 pm
                            Don't hide behind false names know who you are and what your loyalty with stan
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                              Rohith
                              Feb 22, 2016 at 12:09 pm
                              God save India from Commie political minded unsucruplous mothers like you
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                                Rohith
                                Feb 22, 2016 at 12:23 pm
                                Have the courage to come out with your real name. We know who you are and how much your allegiances with stan . All India nationalist will turn hooligans if you speak antinational slogans
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                                  Rohith
                                  Feb 22, 2016 at 12:17 pm
                                  No there is NOTHING between being a nation lover and hater. It is all or none. There is no fence sitting on this one.
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                                    Rohith
                                    Feb 22, 2016 at 12:52 pm
                                    Really ? Are you smoking weed in a hookah ... Where do you come up with this nonsense
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                                      Rohith
                                      Feb 22, 2016 at 1:18 pm
                                      Shalini Langer we see through your evil designs now. You are on the payroll of the antinational NGOs and stan. You and the likes of you have been EXPOSED that is why this hate for Modi ..right ?
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                                        Rohith
                                        Feb 22, 2016 at 1:56 pm
                                        Shame on you Shalini . When our brave soldiers are laying down their lives for this country you media thugs are writing such worthless articles full of hate for India.
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                                          Rohith
                                          Feb 22, 2016 at 1:33 pm
                                          What student? What education ? These fellas are straight up seditionists and should be either hanged or sent to jail for infinity
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                                            Rohith
                                            Feb 22, 2016 at 1:00 pm
                                            You are neither a mother nor a true Indian. You are a commie liberal pseudo secular with a hidden agenda from your Akkas from gulf. Typical liberal bindi brigade strikes again...
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