6 newly-wed women leave in-laws’ home over lack of toilets

Sulabh International announced that the NGO will construct toilets at the (in-laws') houses of the 6 women.

By: Express News Service | Lucknow | Updated: August 16, 2014 10:20 pm

Six newly-wed women, both from the Hindu and Muslim communities, have raised a banner of revolt against their in-laws in Kushinagar district of Uttar Pradesh over lack of toilets in their respective houses.

As per the reports, the brides, all married to residents of Khesiya village of Kushinagar, have returned to their parents’ homes in the past two months. The women have reportedly said they will not return to their in-laws’ places until they construct toilets.

Taking cognizance of the reports, Sulabh International founder Dr Bindeshwar Pathak on Saturday announced that his NGO will construct toilets at the (in-laws’) houses of all the six women.

“The women — Neelam, Kalawati, Shakina, Niranjan, Gudiya and Sita — protested against their husbands and in-laws when they found that there were no toilets in their houses. After spending a few days, they returned to their respective fathers’s homes,” said Sulabh spokesperson Madan Jha.

Pathak, meanwhile, termed the move by the six women as “a bold and extraordinary step”. “Such kind of rising incidents clearly show the changing mindset of girls. Now, everybody realises the importance of toilets,” Pathak said, adding that his NGO will construct the toilets at the women’s homes “free of cost and without any delay.” Additionally, the brides will also be honoured by Sulabh “for their bold stand.”

Interestingly, Prime Minister Narendra Modi in his Independence Day address too urged the parliamentarians and the corporates to help construct toilets as “the poor womenfolk of the village wait for night, until darkness descends, they can’t go out to defecate”. “What bodily torture they must be feeling, how many diseases that act might engender,” he said at the Red Fort.

The Sulabh international had earlier honoured, Priyanka Bharti, a woman from Maharajganj district of UP, who too had returned to her parents’ place after she found no toilet at her in-laws’ house. “Now she works as a Sulabh motivator and also appeared with a Bollywood actress in a sanitation advertisement,” Jha said.

Pathak meanwhile also handed over a cheque of Rs 5 lakh to a tribal woman Anita Narre of Betul in Madhya Pradesh for taking a similar decision.

“A UN study in 2010 found more people in India have access to a mobile phones than to a toilet,” said Pathak, while expressing happiness over the emphasis laid by the PM on sanitation in his speech. “For the first time in the country’s history, the issue of toilet attained such an importance in the speech of any Prime Minister. I am confident that now every household will have toilet in a not too distant future,” Pathak said.

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    zen
    Aug 16, 2014 at 7:44 pm
    You go girls ! So proud of you six. May you inspire all the women of India. It takes a lot of bravery to do what you did, go back to your parents. I salute your parents too for supporting you.
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      Sane
      Aug 16, 2014 at 8:03 pm
      Great move by these women and by Sulabh International. Please post information on how people can donate money to the Sulabh International.
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        Minna
        Aug 17, 2014 at 12:19 am
        It's a she on politicians of the ilk of CM, his father, like people.
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          Never Again
          Aug 18, 2014 at 2:06 am
          ???? Can you check with your daughter to see if she would like to marry into a household (if not forced) where there are no toilets? Even if you are poor enough to afford one? In India, in rural households, it is difficult to ask In-laws for anything much less 'time-off' to go do your ablutions. Imagine having to explain to an interfering, or God Forbid, a monster mother-in-law who can create a fuss EVERTIME you ask or tell her you need to step outside of the house. And oh....You are an for making this comment.
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            RajeevS
            Aug 17, 2014 at 4:42 am
            Why isn't daughter supposed to refuse being brought up in a family where toilet is missing? Why toilets are required only after marriage? Why for everything onus is on husband/in-laws? Is this because anything that breaks the insution of marriage is to be encouraged?
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              MJ
              Aug 17, 2014 at 3:30 pm
              Yes! If it means an end to indignities, harment, beatings, over work, mental abuse etc etc which is the lot of Indian women. Sir, we are saying: Enough! We are to be treated equal citizens, and mothers of your children, given opportunities for education and self-sustaining work. It is time for all Indian women to rise against the oppression that an insution like marriage has wrought, in the name of family honor. Enough!
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                Moba
                Aug 17, 2014 at 2:07 pm
                The daughter has no choice. If you grow up in a place where drinking blood is the norm you will not find anything odd about it, but if you grew up in a place where no one drank blood you would be shocked to see people drink blood . it would seem that the houses where the girls were married into did not have any daughters which wouldn't be surprising considering the fetish for a male child in UP. the girls grew up in places where the parents built toilets for their daughters and they were married into houses where there were none. Obviously they did feel odd and were revolted by the idea of having to defecate in the open.
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                  Rams
                  Aug 18, 2014 at 2:02 am
                  Arey.. There are some people who can't see positive in anything...what is your problem? They are constructing the toilets.. How is a person supposed to live without them? Girls are getting raped for silliest reason like lack of toilets at home. And this is happening after 68 years of Independence.. First of all it's shameful.. And you don't want anyone to protest?
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                    uma
                    Aug 16, 2014 at 7:28 pm
                    Its an excellent idea thatevery village and every school has toilet and that under the Sansad Adarsh GramYojana every MP/MLA spends his allotted fund to construct the same apartfrom the big Corporate houses under CSR funds. I have a few suggestions. I hopethis will be liked by every Indian who wants India to progress under Modi which they could not under the Dynastic rulefor last 60 yrs.I wish some body should bring this to the notice of the PMO forconsideration.1. In thelast few years we have seen that there is a huge clamour from every party toget election tickets. The ticket mongers are all millionaires except a countable no. of them. So every partyshould print a column in their ticket seeking application form as to how manytoilets under social responsibility have the candidate built? If no ,then theyshould promise that irrespective of whether they get tickets or irrespective ofwhether they win or lose they will construct atleast 5 toilets in the households in the village they hail from. Ifthe candidate is an urban ticket seeker then, he/she should adopt 5 householdsin any village of his/her choice /or in schools. This will complete the toiletbuilding. They must also see that water ,light and sewage connections areprovided and some minimum corpus fund is deposited with the village head fortheir maintenance. This will almost solve the problem before next 15th August.2. TheElection Commission Of India should also include a column in its application asto how many toilets have been built by the candidate and if none at the time ofapplying, they promise to do so in the within the next 6 months irrespective ofwinning or losing the election. Afterall those who seek to serve the country bybecoming MP/MLA should start from the Village level and start serving India.3. uggested by the PM, the Sansad AdarshGram Yojana fund can be utilized in building public and school library. Thereare n number of things to do in making a village Adarsh. The surroundingvillages be connected by good roads to this Adarsh Gram so that this Villagebecomes a smart/satellite Village.No politicsshould be looked into nor any party should claim credit for doing so. Afterallirrespective of party affiliations , all these ticket seekers are going tobuild healthy and hygienic India.
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                      harry
                      Aug 16, 2014 at 10:39 pm
                      ''“For the first time in the country’s history, the issue of toilet attained such an importance in the speech of any Prime Minister. I am confident that now every household will have toilet in a not too distant future,”British has finally left India in 2014. Happy independence day.
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