Relatives to blame for talaq: Survey

‘Spur-of-the-moment talaq given in anger, or under the influence of alcohol, each make up less than 1%’

By: Express News Service | New Delhi | Updated: May 17, 2017 3:03 am
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Instigation by parents or relatives of the husband is the single largest reason for divorce among Muslims, a large recent study has found. The inability of the wife’s family to fulfil demands of dowry is the next largest, followed by an affair by the husband.

The survey was carried out among 20,671 individuals — 16,860 men and 3,811 women — across India between March and May this year by the Delhi-based Centre for Research and Debates in Development Policy (CRDDP). The respondents of the online survey were chosen from among a larger, verified database of about 1,00,000 that CRDDP already had.

The research was led by Dr Abu Saleh Shariff, best known as the Member Secretary of the Sachar Committee which, in 2006, submitted a report on the social, educational and economic backwardness and deprivation status of Muslims.

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In 13.27% of cases, the main reason for talaq was instigation by parents or relatives of the husband, the survey found. Dowry was the main reason in 8.41% cases; an affair by the husband, in 7.96%; and because the wife had failed to bear a child, in 7.08% of cases.

A spur-of-the-moment divorce given while the husband was angry accounted for only 0.44% of cases, a finding that appeared to tie in with the other significant finding of the survey — that only 0.33% of divorces were cases of “oral triple talaq”, a practice that is currently facing a challenge in the Supreme Court.

Read | Triple talaq exception rather than rule: Survey

In 0.88% of cases in the survey, talaq had been given while the husband was under the influence of alcohol. The survey has clubbed the largest number of cases (37.61%) under the head of “Other reasons” for talaq.

34% of women respondents and 22% of men were not graduates, while 39% of women and 46% of men were. Among women, the largest chunk (59%) had no income; among men, the largest chunk (31%) earned between Rs 10,000 and Rs 29,999. In terms of occupation, the largest chunk of women (50%) were homemakers; among men, the largest chunk was of the “professional/management category” (31%).

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    Samuel Johnson
    May 19, 2017 at 6:15 am
    I am amazed even in this DNAge we are talking about equal rights to men and women and trying to exempt the slavery of women by Muslim men in the name of Koran in a secular country where a woman should be treated equal to a man. If this was a Muslim country all bets are off. Even those Muslim countries have banned triple talaq and if this was a Koranic tradition then are they breaking it? How illogical mullah Muslim men are? Don't you have mothers and sisters and daughters? Shame on you. Shame on Indian system which is now giving equal rights to Muslim women versus Muslim men. Marriage is an equal responsibility between a man and a woman. So if they go equally into it how can a man unilaterally break it? Then why not allow the woman also to unilaterally break it? What is this 3 words mumbo jumbo by muslim men? Every Indian citizen including women except Muslim men have to follow the process of divorce with equal rights except Muslim men who can just say bye bye bye and his wife is gone.
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      Employ Ment
      May 17, 2017 at 10:09 pm
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        Viyan V
        May 17, 2017 at 9:19 pm
        No no it cannot happen. How this issue be so insignificant when all our ministry and even the PM was projecting it the most pressing and country defining issue. We did get any statement from PM at the demonetization time, but we got multiple remarks from PM for triple-talak. PM was spending all his time on this, how can it turn to be so irrelevant. Chaddi party fooled us once at the election time, and is still using the same strategy to fool more people - Create false crises, keep busy with false crises so that real issues get sidelined, and then present themselves as saviors of those false crises.
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          Samuel Johnson
          May 19, 2017 at 6:16 am
          I am amazed even in this DNAge we are talking about equal rights to men and women and trying to exempt the slavery of women by Muslim men in the name of Koran in a secular country where a woman should be treated equal to a man. If this was a Muslim country all bets are off. Even those Muslim countries have banned triple talaq and if this was a Koranic tradition then are they breaking it? How illogical mullah Muslim men are? Don't you have mothers and sisters and daughters? Shame on you. Shame on Indian system which is now giving equal rights to Muslim women versus Muslim men. Marriage is an equal responsibility between a man and a woman. So if they go equally into it how can a man unilaterally break it? Then why not allow the woman also to unilaterally break it? What is this 3 words mumbo jumbo by muslim men? Every Indian citizen including women except Muslim men have to follow the process of divorce with equal rights except Muslim men who can just say bye bye bye and his wife is gone.
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          Ujar Patel
          May 17, 2017 at 4:49 pm
          Muslims 70 Saal Bewaqoof Bane. Ab Hindus Ki Baari Hai. Bano Bhai. There is no issue of Triple Talaq. The politicians just to polarize the Hindu voters are trying to raise this issue and shedding the crocodile’s tears. It’s so simple - if the husband and wife are not able to live together they should divorce. Now if this divorce comes through courts (involving lot of money, time and mental tension) is also a divorce or saying via talak is also a divorce. The main point is that wife should be divorced in a very very rare case. And if divorced she should be paid back the Mehar amount. Solution is increased the Mehar amount significantly during marriage. And the divorced woman should be remarried as soon as possible. The divorce cases are far lesser in Muslims compared to Hindus. Kindly go through the statistics. Any takers to accept the truths and facts? The vested interest people will keep lying and foo the general public instead of doing the Vikas.
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            Rajat
            May 17, 2017 at 5:36 pm
            अपनी गन्दगी यहाँ मत फैला.
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              Tushar
              May 17, 2017 at 11:16 pm
              Jab tu yaha baithe ho to aur gan dhagi ka zarurat hi kya hai
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                Samuel Johnson
                May 19, 2017 at 6:17 am
                I am amazed even in this DNAge we are talking about equal rights to men and women and trying to exempt the slavery of women by Muslim men in the name of Koran in a secular country where a woman should be treated equal to a man. If this was a Muslim country all bets are off. Even those Muslim countries have banned triple talaq and if this was a Koranic tradition then are they breaking it? How illogical mullah Muslim men are? Don't you have mothers and sisters and daughters? Shame on you. Shame on Indian system which is now giving equal rights to Muslim women versus Muslim men. Marriage is an equal responsibility between a man and a woman. So if they go equally into it how can a man unilaterally break it? Then why not allow the woman also to unilaterally break it? What is this 3 words mumbo jumbo by muslim men? Every Indian citizen including women except Muslim men have to follow the process of divorce with equal rights except Muslim men who can just say bye bye bye and his wife is gone.
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                Samuel Johnson
                May 19, 2017 at 6:21 am
                Dear Ujar Patel Aka Mohammed Dhar Aka S Aka Tushar. So I ume as per your comments in Islam if a women is not happy with her marriage she also hasn't equal rights of triple talaq to her husband to save cost of courts and mental agony. Right? No? Why not? Can you show me statistics where a Hindu man or a Christian man is allowed to divorce his wife by just uttering 3 words with no process? You will be amazed and have written differently if you were a Muslim woman or if you had a sister or daughter. No wonder the jihadi mullah have hijacked the Sunni Islam.
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                umesh
                May 17, 2017 at 4:42 pm
                Tripple talaq or divorce, all depend on the understanding of the importance of the partner, whether Hindu, Muslim or for that matter any other religion. An happy married life of parents only can provide an healthy future for the kids, as simple as that. Forget about the quazi or pandits, unless the husband and wife are ready no one can separate them.
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                  Samuel Johnson
                  May 19, 2017 at 6:22 am
                  But if the husband is ready he can separate with his wife by uttering three words. Can the women also do that?
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                  Niladrinath Mohanty
                  May 17, 2017 at 9:06 am
                  So dowry system is prevalent among the followers of the egalitarian religion Islam! We have to understand that human nature is same. Religion only tries to control it.
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                    JAK
                    May 17, 2017 at 11:13 pm
                    Dowry system is prevalent and there is nothing wrong as it is supposed to be voluntary and without coercion. After all it is a gift by the families to help the newly weds to settle down in life. It should not be confused with the evil practise of forcing/coercing the girls family to part with their wealth and belongings. In that case it is not dowry but a loot.
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                    Abansal Spslt
                    May 17, 2017 at 8:04 am
                    When facts are so clear why is this halla gulla about Muslim women and so-called triple talaq? There has to be a hidden agenda - Hinduisation of Muslims?
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                      Rutwik Dixit
                      May 17, 2017 at 9:13 am
                      India has 175 Muslims.So marriages are half of that. So 0.3 of that amounts to 0.25 million or 2.5 lakh Muslim women who have to go under this horrible practice. You guys blow up the roof in the case of lynching of one person but human rights of 2.5 lakh women is Halla Gulla for you?
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                        Tauheed
                        May 17, 2017 at 10:22 am
                        Wow ... what a calculation!! Of this 175 m Muslims, there is no percentage of old age people whose partner is no more there, there is no percentage of people not of marriageable age.. Simply every single person, even the Child born yesterday got married and divorced his wife!!! By the way going by your logic, 2.4 Crore hindu women (.6 of hindu women or either divorced or separated), are suffering for their human rights!
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                          asif salim
                          May 17, 2017 at 3:43 pm
                          what about the human rights of women like Jashoda Ben
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                            Tushar
                            May 17, 2017 at 11:19 pm
                            It's 003 from 2 lack ....that's not a big number any ways instant talaq shud be abolished
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                              Samuel Johnson
                              May 19, 2017 at 6:23 am
                              I am amazed even in this DNAge we are talking about equal rights to men and women and trying to exempt the slavery of women by Muslim men in the name of Koran in a secular country where a woman should be treated equal to a man. If this was a Muslim country all bets are off. Even those Muslim countries have banned triple talaq and if this was a Koranic tradition then are they breaking it? How illogical mullah Muslim men are? Don't you have mothers and sisters and daughters? Shame on you. Shame on Indian system which is now giving equal rights to Muslim women versus Muslim men. Marriage is an equal responsibility between a man and a woman. So if they go equally into it how can a man unilaterally break it? Then why not allow the woman also to unilaterally break it? What is this 3 words mumbo jumbo by muslim men? Every Indian citizen including women except Muslim men have to follow the process of divorce with equal rights except Muslim men who can just say bye bye bye and his wife is gone.
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                            harun
                            May 17, 2017 at 7:58 am
                            Dar,should know that the day of recokning has come and intemperate reactions are not going to help u out.Just understand this for good.Anger and dislike against Muslims for all that has been going on in the name of Sharia and Islam is palpable and evident. The way Sharia has been implemented based on Hadees which is not 100 is a fact. Muslims must know that credibility has been lost,by making such comments like Dar,Muslims will be isolated
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                              Tushar
                              May 17, 2017 at 11:21 pm
                              It's applicable.to all dude. I condemn dar s comment .But I have seen many who advice or preach a particular religion against abusing are blind towards cowards like dileep ,my take or mahendar gor gan di
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                              Mohammad Dar
                              May 17, 2017 at 1:25 am
                              This problem has nothng to do with Islam but, hindu immoral tradition of hindrance to truth hinduism immorality, seeking wealth from the brides family, forbidden by the teachings of Islam, commanded to pay for the services provided by the wife, in the form of a wealth, demanded by the bride. ONE CAN NOT BE A MUSLIM, AND LIVE BY THE HINDU CRIMINAL FABRICATED TRADITIONS OF HINDUISM, ILLEGALITY, AS A HINDU ILLEGAL WAY OF LIFE.
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                                Tapan Sahay
                                May 17, 2017 at 2:06 am
                                It has to do specific to Islam. We are not talking about Talaq but Triple Talaq of uttering words Talaq three times. Islam is evil in many ways and has always treated women as seconary citizen. So dont justify this 6th century practice under name of Islam. Shame on you for defending it . No wonder Muslims all over the world do not progress
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                                  Mohammad Dar
                                  May 17, 2017 at 7:46 am
                                  Sure, you are a typical hindu lair by faith, and prac ioner of hindrance to truth hinduism immorality, as a way of life, go visit dungeons of hinduism vulgarity, called manders, full of widows and divorcees , out to make living by pros ti tutuion ,including forced rape of widows by the brothers and father of the diseased, Islam gives a right to a woman of divorce, and re marry , unlike hindu filthy tradition of hindu dark ages, precticed by the hogs of hinduism racism by faith, pretending to be human beings. Learn to be a human being, not a hindu in human form.
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                                  Samuel Johnson
                                  May 17, 2017 at 2:14 am
                                  SInce you are blaming Hindus just like you did in 1947 and we gave you your land 35percent of land we have to 20 percent of Muslims and you converted them to Islamic Ppaakistan and Islamic Bbaangladesh what the f....UCk you illegal Muslims are doing in my India? You were born here so? Go back to your country you demanded we gave and we also gave money to you to move. Follow your Sharia Islamic traditions there.
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                                    Mohammad Dar
                                    May 17, 2017 at 7:50 am
                                    You did not give it to stan, but stani Muslims took it, and have right to gain more, according to the wishes of Muslims, if they desire to do so, and they have every right to do so, being the native of the land, unlike hogs of hinduism racism, uninvited guest from the hindu racist Persia and Egypt. hindrance to truth hinduism racism is not a faith, but a crime against humanity , wrapped in a hindu ugly wrapper of religion, to fool humanity.
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                                      reddy
                                      May 17, 2017 at 8:05 am
                                      well said, Indian Muslims will be wiped out from india soon, for sure , they are inviting this by showing their arrogance ,good , keep provoking Hindus, this is what leading to hindu unity and finally islamic destruction
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                                        Mohammad Dar
                                        May 17, 2017 at 10:00 am
                                        A day hindu criminal will regret in their history, if any of them if left to write history, and a day known to humanity, in infamy, not to force Muslims to live by hind crime of hinduism immorality by faith, May be days of human equality are poison for hindu slaves, living by the hind criminal manifesto of hinduism racism , as a hindu criminal faith.
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                                          Tushar
                                          May 17, 2017 at 11:26 pm
                                          Bachaa so jao Varna gabbar ayega ..itna chillatha kyu hai Bhai ...... Kab tak chillate rahega ..U know one thing 17 crore is not a little count .so ur wish to send all Muslims to Pak is not practical .and these kinda hatred will end up in crisis of our own country .... Desh .... Wala ghadi ko .top gear SE seeda down gear tak laya g a aya ahai
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